I'm 27 and virgin is there any solution?
Hallo to all. I have the same problem as many people here as I sadly see.
I am 27 years old and never had a girlfriend. Never had the guts to go to one from my school / univercity etc and talk to her in a way implying I want sex.
Some times I tried getting to know women at clubs / bars but I was turned down.
I probably lack the social skills that you need in order to get involved in such situations. Sometimes I feel like there is a password for getting sex and I don't know it... I want serious relationships but I also want to get full of sex before getting into one, so the "serious" girl won't notice that I was her first. Many girls here say its nice to date a virgin etc BUT I Don't WANT TO BE CONSIDERDED AS THE STRANGE ONE...
This has of course affected my life in many ways:
-as years pass I think more and more of sex, so I don't give attention in ather aspects of my life (univercity, job, etc)
-i don't feel comfortable being around people who have sex while I don't so I have started drinking and drugs just to be able to talk to people...
-from time to time I think "why dont i have the right to have sex with 15 16 17 year old girls" Don't GET ME WRONG, of course now I won't be able to do so at 27, but most people start their sexual life at this age, so most probably they discover sex with partners of their age, why didn't I have the right to have that joy? I think about it and I'm afraid of doing anything stupid and hurting people and ending up in jail. I still have my mind straigt but I'm afraid I will lose it if this situation continues...
The thing is I am KIND OF cool in my circle so never having a girl is probably my fault.
Another thing is that I don't want to go in a serious relationship with a girl that had 500 boyfriends while I had no girl and this makes the situation more complex..
I recently had an eczema on my hands due to stress and I'm sure its because of that. You know, summer in greece, everyone gets *** except of me... :(
As I said I don't know how to get a girl to have sex with me, but even if I could maybe I backed down with the fear that she would notice...
I have read here that there are girls who like virgin men, so I think maybe I go to another country for some time and tell the girl I HOPEFULLY meet I'm virgin so I am not worried about finding out and then return to greece as a different person...
I have been with prostitutes some times but its surely not like having your girl and having sex all day and night... :(
What is your opinion? Sorry for the big text...