Hi!

Me and my girlfriend just broke up from a 10 month old relationship because she no longer loves me like she used to in the beginning.

I was always nice to her, never ever cheated, I was always there for her when she needed. Sure we had some small arguments, nothing big though, but I never treated her wrong. Basically I was everything a good boyfriend should be... at least that was what I thought...

So why did she stop loving me? Or what are the main reasons for a girl to stop loving her boyfriend?

P.S. Surprisingly and even though we broke up 1 day ago, I'm not sad or heart broken at all... I just want to know this so it doesn't happen in future relationships.

Thanks, all help is very appreciated.

Maybe since you didn't "love" her, she knew there was no future with you. How old are both of you?

While its true that I started having my own doubts about the relationship I never said I stopped loving her.

Im 18 and she's 17.

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Originally Posted by Squat

while its true that I started having my own doubts about the relationship I never said I stopped loving her.

Im 18 and she's 17.

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If you don't miss her and your heart isn't at least hurting it was time to break up. Young man there will be many relationships in your life and one day you'll find the true love you've been looking for.


You're very young and she is also. Have fun before you get involved. Be young and enjoy being young. It goes by fast. Enjoy Life.

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

If you don't miss her and your heart isn't at least hurting it was time to break up. Young man there will be many relationships in your life and one day you'll find the true love you've been looking for.


You're very young and she is also. Have fun before you get involved. Be young and enjoy being young. It goes by fast. Enjoy Life.

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Thanks for the inspirational answer :D

I reckon that everything you said is very true but how can I prevent this from happening in the future?

Imagine one day I find the person I always been looking for and I let her slip trough my fingers like I just did?

Should I even worry about things like this?

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Originally Posted by Squat

Thanks for the inspirational answer :D

I reckon that everything you said is very true but how can I prevent this from happening in the future?

Imagine one day I find the person I always been looking for and I let her slip trough my fingers like I just did?

Should I even worry about things like this?

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When you're older you'll realize love is being honest with that person. You want her to be happy even if it means sacrificing something you want to do. Never cheat or lie to her. Be strong but don't be a doormat.
Be loving but not needy and clinging. Be gentle and be a shoulder to cry on if she needs one.

Be your own person. Don't let anyone make you feel less a man. Never hit a woman. Never be emotionally abusive to a woman. You can be a man and still be sensitive. Love her and expect love in return. Always be true to yourself and never give up on your goals. A woman will respect you more if you stand for what you believe in. Good luck

Wow... Believe me or not those words gave chills up my spine. :p

You just gave me a lot to think about...

I don't know how to thank you other than saying thanks, but really... thank you.

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

When you're older you'll realize love is being honest with that person. You want her to be happy even if it means sacrificing something you want to do. Never cheat or lie to her. Be strong but don't be a doormat.
be loving but not needy and clinging. Be gentle and be a shoulder to cry on if she needs one.

Be your own person. Don't let anyone make you feel less a man. Never hit a woman. Never be emotionally abusive to a woman. You can be a man and still be sensitive. Love her and expect love in return. Always be true to yourself and never give up on your goals. A woman will respect you more if you stand for what you believe in. Good luck

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Im sorry, but do you mind if I write this down on paper for future use? :D

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Im sorry, but do you mind if I write this down on paper for future use? :D

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Not at all. You'll find the right one.

Every relationship is different, because the partners will be different, and you will more than likely be different to them all in different ways. There is no telling what will happen, but good coping, and communications skills, are sometime pretty handy for the future, as well as an open mind, and honest heart.

Some times even that is not enough, and break ups always suck! There are no guarantees that anything you do will work, and that's really the beauty of life, you just never know what will happen next.

Have faith in yourself, and be happy with yourself, and whatever you do, and just be grateful for the options. And opportunities you do get.

Love comes and goes, otherwise there wouldn't be divorce.

Relationships take a lot of work, daily work, you have to put in what you hope to get out of it.

At your age love doesn't usually last. Obviously you're not to torn up about it, so learn from this and move on.