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  • Aug 17, 2010, 08:24 AM
    lover17235
    My girlfriend hates me..
    My girlfriend hates me now, I'm pretty sure. I asked her if she wanted to have sex, I said it wouldn't hurt BUT I accidentally said I had sex with other girls before (just one, my ex-girlfriend) she was like, what?? then she just got mad. Will she get over it, cause she was pretty mad :( ?
  • Aug 17, 2010, 08:30 AM
    SweetDee

    How old are you both?
  • Aug 17, 2010, 08:40 AM
    lover17235

    SweetDee: we are both 18
  • Aug 17, 2010, 08:49 AM
    lover17235

    SweetDee: she's 17 actually**
  • Aug 17, 2010, 08:51 AM
    slapshot_oi

    She doesn't hate you, she's just jealous.
  • Aug 17, 2010, 08:54 AM
    lover17235

    slapshot_oi: why would she be jealous? I think she is mad cause I had sex with another girl...
  • Aug 17, 2010, 08:56 AM
    Homegirl 50

    If she has never had sex before it probably will hurt, so for you to say that is just silly. Sounds like you just want some.

    Was she under the impression that you had not had sex with anyone?
    To say "oh it won't hurt, I've had sex with other girls and it was fine" is a totally stupid thing to say
  • Aug 17, 2010, 09:06 AM
    lover17235

    Homegirl 50: yeah, I know, I'm stupid, it slipped out of my mouth... :(
  • Aug 17, 2010, 09:06 AM
    slapshot_oi
    Why wouldn't she be jealous? You might as well have said "well what the hell my ex was okay with it, what's wrong with you?". It's just rude.

    She doesn't hate you, you said something stupid, you didn't mean to offend her. It happens, move on.
  • Aug 17, 2010, 01:30 PM
    Shaydie

    She doesn't hate you and so what if she does. Unless you told her you were a virgin and lied then it is really not her concern.
    As a side note, You should not be pressuring anyone for sex. It is uncomfortable to be pressured when you aren't ready.
  • Aug 17, 2010, 01:49 PM
    Shaydie

    This user has posted as a male and as a female...
  • Aug 17, 2010, 01:55 PM
    SweetDee

    She'll get over being jelouse that you had sex with someone other than her in your life before she came around...

    Also did you ever think that your virginity was one of the many reasons she really liked you?

    Losing one's virginity "together" has a impact on some young adults.

    I hope you both have worked it out and all is well by now. :)

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