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  • Aug 15, 2010, 12:51 PM
    nancylynn46
    Do u have pay child support if the mother dies
    Grandparents are raising the child after mom dies does the dad still have to pay child support?
  • Aug 15, 2010, 04:03 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Why is the dad not raising the child?

    I would assume then that the grandparents went to court after the death of the mother and got custody of the child ? Did the court issue a new child support order ?
  • Aug 15, 2010, 05:24 PM
    nancylynn46
    No dad is not raising the child grandparents are and no one been to court
  • Aug 15, 2010, 05:24 PM
    nancylynn46
    No dad is not raising the child grandparents are and no one been to court
  • Aug 15, 2010, 05:36 PM
    Wondergirl

    Who's raising the child -- the mother's parents or the father's parents? They just up and took the child to their home, or had the mother been living with them?

    (Isn't the support money paid for the baby's upkeep?)
  • Aug 15, 2010, 05:45 PM
    ScottGem

    You didn't answer the main question. WHY is the dad not raising the child. When a custodial parent dies, the NCP should take over custody. For ANYONE else to take custody needs a court order.
  • Aug 15, 2010, 05:48 PM
    nancylynn46

    Mother has lived with grandparents all the child life and dad has not been around.
  • Aug 15, 2010, 05:50 PM
    Wondergirl

    But the dad has paid money for support, so he's somewhere.
  • Aug 15, 2010, 05:51 PM
    nancylynn46
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    But the dad has paid money for support, so he's somewhere.

    Yes married twice and knows where the child is.
  • Aug 15, 2010, 05:52 PM
    Wondergirl

    Like Scott asked, why hasn't the father claimed the child?
  • Aug 15, 2010, 05:54 PM
    nancylynn46

    Grandparents want the child
  • Aug 15, 2010, 05:55 PM
    Wondergirl

    What does the father say?
  • Aug 15, 2010, 05:56 PM
    nancylynn46

    We had for six months he never has ask for the child
  • Aug 15, 2010, 05:56 PM
    ScottGem

    Even if the mother lived with her parents, they had no right to take custody. They have no legal right to approve medical care for the child or register the child in school.

    Is the father paying support directly or through an agency?
  • Aug 15, 2010, 05:59 PM
    nancylynn46

    He hasn't paid in a yr


    He gave us power of attorney

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by nancylynn46 View Post
    he gave us power of attorney

    Temporary power of attorney
  • Aug 15, 2010, 06:05 PM
    Wondergirl

    What is the time limit of the POA, or what makes it temporary?

    Did he stop paying when the mother died?
  • Aug 15, 2010, 06:08 PM
    nancylynn46

    He stop before the mother passed and gave us temporary power of attorney for two yrs
  • Aug 15, 2010, 06:12 PM
    Wondergirl

    Was the POA notarized and witnessed?
  • Aug 15, 2010, 06:14 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Assuming there was no danger from the father, when mother died, he basically gained custody, There is no current child support order in place, since that was between him and his deceased wife.

    Currently you are baby sitting for him, he ( knowing he has legal right to child) has given POA to you ( he can take it away anytime he wants) So he can or he does not have to provide you any money, since you merely have a informal agreement with him to what his kids for him.

    If you want custody or guardianship you will have to go to court for it.
  • Aug 15, 2010, 06:15 PM
    nancylynn46

    Yes

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