I've been seeing this new guy for a little over a month, we used to have a lot of sex, but laity I find myself not wanting sex. I love kissing him and making out, but once things get too hot and heavy I back off. He's an amazing guy, Good looking and treats me like a princess. Why can't I get the urge to have sex with him?

We will need to know how old you are please.

I'm 20 years old, he's 25

I've slept with more people then him. And am usually a REALLY sexual person. I still masturbate. I just don't want to have sex with him...

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Originally Posted by tropicallvr1

I've been seeing this new guy for a little over a month, we used to have a lot of sex, but laity i find my self not wanting sex. i love kissing him and making out, but once things get too hot and heavy i back off. He's an amazing guy, Good looking and treats me like a princess. why can't i get the urge to have sex with him?

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You have been seeing him for a month and you "used " to have a lot of sex.:eek:
But now you don't feel the urge.

It's been less than a month. Maybe you're just tired. ;)(attempted humor)

I would not worry too much about a change in your sexual appetite that has not lasted even a month.

It could be that the blazing fire of new passion is burning down as it tends to do, although a month is a short time for that be happening.

Have you thought about your menstrual cycle being involved?
When was your last check up? Always a chance it is physical.

But since it has been a short time (from most perspectives) try to relax, stop worrying about it and see if it changes.

I wish you well

Gee.. only a month and you talk like you've been with him for years.

What I think is you are coming to terms that even though you have lots of sex... you don't really share much else in common. You just aren't ready to admit that to yourself yet.