I had unprotected sex with my ex-boyfriend on 7/28/2010 , than I had sex with my new boyfriend, which he used a condom on 7/30/2010. On 8/7/2010 my breast started to swell and are very,very tender now. I think I'm pregnant but a bit scared becus I had sex with two guys so close even though the last 1 was with a condom... please someone help me, who am I pregnant by?

Just by odds there would be more sperm available to do the job from the sex on the 28th.

Condoms are not 100% effective however, especially if he had put the condom on after he had already spent some time inside you.

Before you get too worried, find out if you are actually pregnant first. Have you missed a period? When is your next period due... maybe the breast tenderness is from that as you wouldn't have breast enlargement due to pregnancy that soon after sex.

Doula is right. Don't put the cart before the horse. Find out if you are pregnant first.

No I haven't missed my period yet, my periods are always on time except the 2 last times I misscarried. My last period was on June,21,2010 so my next one isn't due until the 21st of this month.. with my boyfriend who used the condom he never was inside of me pryer to him puttn the condom on.. I just think I am pregnant becus everysince the 7th of this month my boobs have felt like they only have the last two times I was pregnant, also I'm tired, sick, dizzzy...

You could always try a pregnancy test and see what results you get.
Was the last period June 21 or July 21? Was there a miscarriage between that period and now?

Sorry my last period was July 21, 2010... last misscarry was March 2010... I took a test on the 10th of this month and was negative...

There is something we call birth control. It's great, especially if you are having sex with more than one man.

On the 7th I started having lite adomanal pain and lower back, and from then onto now I am still having very light cramps sometimes little sharp fast lite pains I'm guessing in my pelvic area... ummm I don't know, I guess I will wait another week and test again... Thank you so so very very for helping me out : ) : )

Yea thnks kitkatt... lol but the only thing is I don't have sex with more than one person really and if you read my post the right way you see that I just broke up with my ex boyfriend of 8 years which is only who I've been with, than as for my new boyfriend he has been my friend for 4 years in which we just start dating that very day and it happened... and as I said I used a condom... so thnks

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Originally Posted by effy1234

yea thnks kitkatt...lol but the only thing is I dnt have sex with more than one person really and if u read my post the right way you see that I just broke up with my ex boyfriend of 8 years which is only who ive been with, than as for my new boyfriend he has been my friend for 4 years inwhich we just start dating that very day and it happened...and as I said I used a condom... so thnks

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You're welcome. Hope everything is fine.