(14)what are the concequences?

Pregnancy, frigidity (if the experience was bad), uncomfortable sex when she gets older due to irritation.

Now why do you ask?

Because I was talking to some girl , and she told me the first time she had sex was 14. Now I wonder if she like has a lot of sex since then if she liked it. You know, maybe could have became a "whore", but she said that she only had sex with her boyfriend. And just him. And gave oral sex to another guy she went out for only 2 weeks!

I Lost It When I Was 13 And I Became Pregnant At 14 But Had An Abortion So I Wouldn't Recommend Anybody To Have Sex When They Are 14 B/c U Are Not Mature Enough And U Don't Really Think About The Consequences If I Could Go Back I Wouldn't Have Done It My Consequences Were Tried To Kill Myself Had To Move And Now I Feel Like I Killed My Baby The Consequences May Varied But They Are Going To Be Close To Mine

Ok, first 14 is not a "very young age". Young yes, but not VERY young. I would consider very young to be pre-teen.

However 14 is immature to start to be become sexually active. Most 14 yr olds do not have the emotional stability for it.

A whore is defined as someone who engages in sex for money or other pay. I think you are thinking more of a slut, which would be someone who engages in sex just for the pleasure, with anyone without emotional attachment.

This girl does seem on the way to being considered a slut.

I guess you can call her a slut for giving that guy oral sex. Well now she is going out with one guy, for almost a year and only has sex with him. Before him it was her ex boyfriend that went out for a year too, and that 2-week-guy.

She is only 16 now though. That all happened between 14-16 and she just turned 16.
O_O!

She is in love with this new guy though, says she'll never leave him. And that his sex is good.. . I just kindda thought 14 was kindda young, to have sex and to be in love.

So is 16. But not as bad as 14. I wouldn't quite consider her a slut though. A lot would depend on how soon she started having sex with each guy. If she went out with them for several months before having sex that wouldn't make her a slut. But if she went down for them after 1 or 2 dates, well...

The last one(her boyfriend now), took like 3 or 4 months. So I don't think she's a slut either.

I was 14 about to be 15, I am no where near a whore.. since then, I am 20 now, I have only had sex with 3 people... all boyfriends.. but it really depends on the person, when you are young have fun but be sure to use protection...

Sweetheart if a girl have sex in a very young age like 14..
She could turn sex maniac
Or
She woud not want it again
Or
It would effect her whole life..

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Originally Posted by heartbeauty

Sweetheart if a girl have sex in a very young age like 14..
She could turn sex maniac
or
she woud not want it again
or
it would effect her whole life ..

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Not neccsarily true.. I had sex at 15, and none of the above is true.. I have only been with that one guy I lost my virignity to and my husband... for now.. lol... and.. although I enjoy the spontaneous and try almost everything.. I am not a sex maniac... lol...

27 years old.

Yes having sex at a age will affect your life I did and I'm really scared to know what's going to happen in the future