Well.. I'm really confused. I've been with this guy for a 3 years now.. Since high school.. And I really love him.. We have a sexual relationship but in recent months we haven't had sex.. I didn't notice how long it had been until my boyfriend pin pointed it out to me. I love him so dearly.. But he thinks I am going off him.. Am I.. I don't think I am.. Or am I really falling out of love with him with out knowing.. We had a bit of a break six months ago and I became good friends with another guy.. Who I thought was also very kind.. But found I compared him to my boyfriend too much and found it impossible to move on.. But now being back with my boyfriend the other guy found out and won't talk to me anymore.. Which I am finding very depressing... I want him to still be friends.. But he's too busy off with other girls so I've been told... Apparently though he doesn't find any of them good enough and his mates are always complaining how he's comparing them to me all the time... And he can't get over me.. Mean while my boyfriend who I'm with.. And love is saying I'm going off him but I'm just so confused. Can any of you work out what my brain is thinking

Maybe you need to look at what your feeling and think that maybe you've outgrown your old relationship and need to move on... Or what is making you guys fall apart and not close, have you sat down and talked about what is going on and if this guy wants you so much why is he seeing other women, come on he should be trying to get you back if he really cares... so give your thoughts a chance to explore what is happening within you and if your old relationship can be salvaged then go fporward if not then it's time for a change. Best of luck and Godd Bless

Chaz :) remember you have to do what is going to make you happy

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Originally Posted by chickyDEE

Well..im really confused. Ive been with this guy for a 3 years now.. since high school.. and i really love him.. we have a sexual relationship but in recent months we havent had sex.. i didnt notice how long it had been until my boyfriend pin pointed it out to me. I love him so dearly.. but he thinks i am going off him.. am i .. i dont think i am.. or am i really falling out of love with him with out knowing .. ??? We had a bit of a break 6months ago and i became good friends with another guy.. who i thought was also very kind.. but found i compared him to my boyfriend too much and found it impossible to move on.. but now being back with my boyfriend the other guy found out and wont talk to me anymore.. which i am finding very depressing... i want him to still be friends.. but hes too busy off with other girls so ive been told... apparently though he doesnt find any of them good enough and his mates are always complaining how hes comparing them to me all the time..... and he can't get over me.. mean while my boyfriend who im with.. and love is saying im going off him but im just so confused. Can any of you work out what my brain is thinking

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Its funny you should ask that.. my advice on this one... is be very careful if you still want to be friends with your old boyfriend... also though make him aware of the consquences if he should beyoud that line.
Be nice to him... not to nice... since he happens to be the father of your present child... However when u are with the dude you love... make him aware that he is the main dude in your life.

Who do you love? Why do you care if you have a boyfriend already? Can you see you so called "good friend" is busy with some other girls... maybe your boyfriend lose faith in you which is horrible and sad