I've just met this girl but she's about an hour away from me, we see each other every week or so like she's been down twice & I'm going there tomorrow but she likes it when she's treated mean like we constantly abuse each other verbally, but like I can feel myself starting to like her & I've already started to act a bit sensitive & I really don't want too, I need help guys to stop cause I always end up losing girls because of this.. could anyone give me some advice ? Thanks in advance

Why in the world would you even want to be in a relationship that is verbally abusive? An abusive relationship will always get worse.

I'd suggest that you get out there and find someone else who won't be yelling or calling you names!

If you are an abuser you need to seek some counseling to get it under control.

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Originally Posted by Devorameira

Why in the world would you even want to be in a relationship that is verbally abusive? An abusive relationship will always get worse.

I'd suggest that you get out there and find someone else who won't be yelling or calling you names!

If you are an abuser you need to seek some counseling to get it under control.

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Not everyone responds to kindness, because it is, in fact, a personal preference. In the OP's case, this girl likes to be verbally abused and he complies, there is no problem so counseling isn't required.

Since you're starting to like her and yet you abuse her, you'll quickly find yourself in an emotional conflict. I agree with the above, if you're looking for a relationship this probably isn't the girl for you.

Don't be so quick to get into something you know little about, with a person you know so little about.

Especially when it seems your natures are so very different.