I am 20 yrs old boy. I have two sisters there age are 15 and 17 yrs. My father lives abroad for earning money . So most of the time we live with our mother .my mom is a dominating female. The problem has started 5 yrs ago when I have a quarrel with my sister and I has beaten her badly . She started crying and went to the mom . And she told this to my mom. Mom became very furious on me and mom asked to my younger sisters for squeezing my testes if I ever try to beat them or fight with my sisters in future. After some days I have another dispute with my sister and I have slapped her very hard. Surprisingly she reacted very violently and grabbed my testes over my trouser and started squeezing it very hard. I screamed with pain and I pleaded to her for leave my genitals. After some minutes she leave my genitals and became very happy by realizing her first victory over me since childhood. After that incident whenever I has any quarrel or dispute with my sisters they starts squeezing my testes. And forcefully remove my trousers and underwear. And makes my genitals totally nude and then the squeeze my testes and twist it very hard.. Sometimes they do this in front of my mom also. I have asked my mom several time to stop this humiliating punishments given by sisters after taking consent of my mom. But she refused to stop these things. They not only watch my bare genitals molesting but also enjoy it. It is very embarrassing to become nude in front sisters and mother. And they molest my genitals in a wild manner this give a lot of pain and humiliation. How can I stop all these things in my house against these dominating female. What should I do to stop these things.

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Originally Posted by yoonu

what should I do to stop these things.

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You're 20, get a job and move out.

Do as NeedKarma says if you can't then stop fighting with your sisters and be nice to them.

John

... is this a serious question?

1. Why are you hitting people? You're a 20 year old male. No one taught you not to hit girls?

2. Why are you even fighting with your siblings? When you're a kid, I get that. But by age 20, you'd think you'd stop fighting, physically.

3. You ever hear about the kid who touched the hot stove? You see, someone said, "Don't touch the hot stove." And the kid touched the hot stove and got burned. You think he went back to touch the hot stove to see if it'll burn again?

You two fought, she squeezed your testicles, it caused pain. Now, I would STOP fighting/hitting your sister, and MAYBE, just MAYBE, she'll stop squeezing your testicles.

Oh, and like needkarma said, get a job, move out.

In the past five years since this began have you told your father even once? If not, why not?

In the past five years, have you gone to the authorities or someone who could influence your mother's thinking and/or actions?

Best idea would be to leave the house and get a place of your own. You are old enough to walk away from those who abuse you. You are old enough to carry with you the lesson that hitting girls is not good.

Are there other family members you could stay with until you are able to live on your own? Have you thought about getting a job abroad?

I'm really torn with my suggestion here. On one hand I see a 20 year old man confessing to badly beating his sister, who probably could not fight back, and his mother who probably told his sister to hit him where it hurts.

On the other hand I am a bit concerned about the pulling pants down thing, but if you are able to baldy beat your sister, surely you can stop her from pulling your pants down?

But what I really want to know, is why you are hitting your sisters in the first place?

I will 3rd NK's advice, get a job and move out.

This question doesn't belong in Adult Sexuality, but I'm not sure where it does belong.

Like the other respondents there are a whole series of red flags here. Some of which are hardly credible.

So 5 years ago, when you were 15 and your sisters were 12 and 10 you beat up your sister "badly". That's red flag #1. What could have caused you to beat up on any 12 yr old (assuming it was the older sister) let alone your sister. Second, you say your mother advised your sisters to squeeze your testicles to get you to stop beating on them. That's red flag #2. I can understand a mother telling them to give you a kick in the crotch but actual touching and squeezing to 12 and 10 yr old girls?
Third, Once you were aware that they now had a hold over you, why did you continue to fight with them? That's red flag #3.
But the biggest red flag here and the one that makes your story hard to believe is that your mother would let teenage girls (assuming this practice has continued for several years) to undress their older brother and molest him in such a manner. That is one of the sickest things I've ever heard. That raises several red flags on its own.

So, assuming you do not want to report your mother and sisters for assault and molestation, which could result in a whole mess for your family, your best option is to move out.

It's self-defensive, not molestation.

I don't feel bad for you. You beat your sibling and she twists and pulls your nuts; tit for tat.

4th on NeedKarma's post: move out.

First off, if you are "20", then you are no longer a "boy", you are considered a man. And with this title comes responsibilities. One of those responsibilties is always take care of your family. That means protect them, keep any and all people who would do them harm away. You have no right to raise your hand in anger towards them. You make me sick.

You started this mess with your cowardly behavior. Learn how to act right, and there won't be a problem.

How about getting your own life? How about BEING that man?

Yes, it's wrong for them to pull your pants down and make fun of your genitals. But you are getting what you deserve.

I ask you, what if some guy off the street came into your home, and started hitting your sisters? What would you do? I say probably nothing.

Grow up.

Maybe you are still a "BOY" after all.

Stop whining and change your life.

Right... I am sorry if this is all true, but I am finding more and more of "new" posters' stories difficult to believe.

Maybe I have become overly suspicious of late, but I have a feeling that someone has been coming on under new names and/or some people just like to make-up stories and have a go.

OP... if all that you say is true, I apologize... follow the advice you have received. Move out, if you can't on your own, move in with a friend or other family member. Contact your father and make him aware of what is going on. Do it today!

I don't care what country you live in, this is not normal or acceptable behaviour. For your mother to allow this, and even encourage it, says there is something very wrong with her. Get out.

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Originally Posted by slapshot_oi

It's self-defensive, not molestation.

I don't feel bad for you. You beat your sibling and she twists and pulls your nuts; tit for tat.

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While I have little if any sympathy for the OP, kicking or punching someone in the nuts when fighting is self defense. Pulling one's pants down, twisting and squeezing their genitals is molestation.

This is a red flag garden.

I too have a hard time with credibility here.

Should have moved out two years ago if this is accurate.

You are old enough to know right from wrong and should have the common sense to find a way to extract yourself.

Like get a job and move out.

Leave.

Fiction : fabricated story to > ENTERTAIN < or deceive. So the last line of the post says " what should I do to stop these things" well if you actually need advice on how to stop "these things" how about getting snipped? That would sure show them Kung foo grip sisters of yours... and prevent you from procreating. Two birds with one stone

I'll bet he's really 12 and thinks he's being funny. There is something about this tall tale that indicates a profound lack of maturity. And I find it more than a stretch to take it as credible. After all, what guy... 16 or 20 would allow anyone to pull his pants down and allow anyone to do something painful to his testicles. That is without a much larger person forcibly holding him down.

Like the others, I find this hardly credible. Schools still out and the kiddies are bored. While we can and should question stories like this, we have to allow for the craziness in the world and, at least, entertain the possibility that the story is true.

The fact that the OP hasn't returned yet is another clue that this is a troll. So I'm going to close this thread for now. If the OP wants to discuss his further he can send me a PM and I will reopen it.