I really like this guy. I met him a couple of years ago, then we lost touch. I found him on FB and said "remember me?...He replied with "of course I do how could I forget." To make a long story somewhat shorter we got together had some drinks and kissed. That was it. I asked him to come to a bar by me on a Sat nite because my best friend was singing in a band. I got no response, but he did text me out of the blue and said that he may be able to make it sat, but he had to see if the ex would take his daughter. He didn't call, show, nothing. So maybe a month or so later I get a text message asking what im up to& if I wanted to get together. I told him I was in CA (I really was). Then he asked when im coming back. I told him on Sat ...then nothing. Another month or so I get a FB message saying something like "Hey beautiful... been down my way?" We went back and fourth for awhile and then he said "when do you want to get together. I foget what happened... OH we made plans for mon after he got off week. I went down and hung out at a bar and texted him saying I was in the area... It was about 5. He said "im off soon i'll text u then" Then nothing... by this time it was about 7. I texted him I was heading home. Later that night I got a text saying he was sooo sorry his friend had flipped his jeep and he had to go to the hosp with him. I said it was not a big deal.. and just left it. IDK I just get these spuratic texts from him and I don't know what to make of it. We got together a couple days ago for like an hr because he had a baseball game he was in. and haven't heard from him since. So do I write to him or text? When we left he said we have to do this again soon and pointed at me when he said it.

What is it you like about someone who seems to be at best rude , in not informing you he wouldn't be showing up to arranged meetings?

He gives you little or no consideration by what you've said.

I don't understand the attraction.

Wait for him, don't you do anything and see what happens. I think if he were really interested there would be more contact and he would show up when he says he will.

How well do you know him? Are you sure he's single?

Bad timing, or bad manners, maybe both. Why waste any more time on a sometime text buddy?

I would have no high hopes, or expectations from such a busy fellow, as he has other priorities, and so should you. Make no time for anyone that can't make time for you.

Give someone else the chance that you have given him, as he blew his, don't you think? I do.

Yes drop him don't bother texting him he's not all that keen you're probably filling in time, and he hasn't even got the decency to let you know, dump him he's a waster. Find yourself a nice real genuine guy. If there's any left.

Don't put yourself through the frustration of a rude, ill-mannered guy.

Things do happen and sometimes you can't meet up with a person, but there is absolutely no excuse for him to not call or text you to tell you he wasn't coming.

Are you sure he's even telling you the truth? Is it possible that he has a girlfriend that he's not able to break away from?

I'd forget him. I'd ignore his texts just like he's ignored yours and move on.

I know he's not attached. He just broke it off with a girlfriend a couple of months ago. Even said on his Facebook he was now single. Then it looked like she deleted him or something, then friended him back and then deleted again. I mean he has a daughter he has full custody of. He is a very busy guy between work, his daughter, he plays sports. I mean when I text or write him on fb, and he does answer me back, he'll be like "when can we get together?" I say "whenever" and he's like why don't you meet me now... and I'll just be texting or emailing out of the blue. Iv'e been to his aptmt before. Nothing out of the ordinary, the place was a sty so I know that there isn't a woman in the picture... lol. I'm talking bad. Anyway, I don't know if I should delete him off my fb or just wait until he contats me again and get together and talk which is what I would really like to do. However I'm not going to be the needy initiator. Idk if deleting him off my Facebook would catch his attn.

Im sure you deserve a better guy than this. He isn't treating you right and seems to be extremely rude. Don't let yourself get pushed around by this guy and let him walk all over you. Move on to a guy that will actually appreciate you.