Hello, I was just wondering how great the chances are for getting pregnant from a little precome from my boyfriend's penis? We didn't have sex at all, he didn't enter me or anything, we're virgins, all I did was feel the tip of his penis from inside of his jeans. It was moist so I'm asuming it was precome. He didn't ejaculate from this, and I'm sure he never ejaculated before the incident either, I wasn't trying to jack him off or anything either, I just rubbed the tip with my finger. But then I took my hand out from his jeans and licked my finger, and I was wondering if by any chance that little bit of precome did contain some sperm, if it could possibly lived inside my mouth, because after I did that I kissed him, then he went down on me. And Im worried that now he has sperm in his mouth. Can sperm live in a moist environment like mouths? Is it likely that I could get pregnant from this?

Also after I licked that finger, it was in the air for several minutes, I then touched myself with the same finger. I did not stick anything in though, just rubbed the outside. I'm pretty sure my hand was already dry though although I can't remember very well. I know it wasn't that much at all, but I was very wet as well. This was all we did.

Is there any chance at all that I could be pregnant from ANY of this?
I did get my period the very next day after this incident, but it was like a week early, but I AM always a little irregular. I just found it strange how it came the very next day. It's now been 3 weeks since the incident, and I'm horribly paranoid that I'm pregnant. Since then it seems like I'm having ALL the symptoms like sore chest, weird stomach pains, VERY tender right breast, which I've never had before. I feel like I'm making myself sick though. I can't sleep at night because I keep thinking about it. Should I have a reason to worry? Also I can't take a pregnancy test because I have no way of buying one and I don't know anyone who can buy one for me. I guess I just need to wait and see if I miss my next period? But I'm stressing horribly and I know that can make it late, and that's going to scare me even more.

I'd appreciate any feedback or advice on my situation. Thank you

You cannot get pregnant from sperm that was in your mouth through swallowing,nor through several layers of clothing...

Kids' Health - Topics - Sexual reproduction - how babies are made

The above is alink explaining in simple terms how pregnancy occurs.

I strongly suggest you read it.

I also strongly suggest you refrain from any kind of sexual activity until you have educated yourself on the basic facts and can handle the emotions that come with having sex.

I assume you are a young teen,concentrate on school,there's plenty of time for relationships and sex when your older.

Yeah I don't appriciate being treated like a baby. I just need a little insight on my problem.

Nor did I say anything about swallowing or through several layers of clothes.

I'm not treating you like a baby,if you don't know this stuff you have no business fooling around.

I'm talking about educating yourself so you don't find yourself upset and stressing,I'm talking about protecting yourself.

No one on line can tell you if your pregnant of not.

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Originally Posted by melrose908

nor did I say anything about swallowing or through several layers of clothes.

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The sperm was in your mouth... you would have swallowed.

You were dressed?

He still had his jeans on?

Did I read that correctly?

Yes he had jeans on but my finger came in contact with the moisture on his penis then myself. THAT'S why I'm worried.

Also it wasn't even enough sperm to swallow.

Melrose, so long that sperm does not enter your vagina, you cannot get pregnant. Sperms need to meet your eggs, then get implanted on the walls of your uterus.

Unless your mouth is directly connected to your vagina (which is not the case), you cannot get pregnant.

Melrose,it only takes one sperm to get pregnant,and there's millions of them,even in pre moisture in the penis.

If his penis did not go anywhere near your vagina,if as you say you touched his penis,then into your mouth,then kissed him and then he gave you oral,the odds are low that you are pregnant,sperm needs contact with your vagina.

Is saying all that melrose,I was not there,and no one can say for sure if your pregnant on line.

This has given you quite a scare and I understand you are stressed and worried,but I can't give you a yes or no answer,girls/women have gotten pregnant in the strangest of circumstances,in fact using 3 forms of contraception.

Not only are you at risk of becoming pregnant but also take into consideration std's.

More than likely his penis was wet with urine. Even it was pre-ejaculate there wouldn't be enough on the tip of your finger to survive very long being in your mouth (remember what saliva does) before he kissed you (more saliva) and proceeded to oral sex. Unless more happened than you are admitting, it is highly doubtful you are pregnant.

Now, why can't you buy a pregnancy test? If you are old enough to play sex games (oral sex is still sex), you should be able to purchase a test. If you can't, why can't your boyfriend? If you can't talk to him about this, then there is another very good reason not to play games with him.

Buying a pregnancy test is just something I can't do.
I've never done anything sexual in my life and I know I could just be a little more paranoid than I should be.
Maybe that's why.

I know I need to tell him to slow things down but I cant.

Ask him how he feels about being a daddy and paying child support for the next 18 years.. that should slow him down.

Don't be talked into 'its just for a minute' or 'if you love me you would do it'

That is a load of BS... its your body your life,your decision.

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i've never done anything sexual in my life

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I hate to tell you this Melrose, but this statement isn't true. Oral sex is sex. That's why it's called Oral "sex".

You're on a path right now where soon you will be here telling us you're late, but you used protection, and could you be pregnant.

Educate yourself. Only you can protect yourself from pregnancy, STD's, etc. etc. Okay? We only want what's best for you, and you're obviously way too young to be playing these adult games.

Wow I very much regret posting this question here.
What I meant above is that I've never anything sexual BEFORE this.
I did not need to be told "educate yourself"
I know you're adults and I know I'm young and I probably don't know all there is to know about sex yet.
But I don't regret doing what I did, I regret not being more careful about it.
All I wanted was some personal opinions, not sex 101 and not to be judged and looked down as an idiot kid.