Hi.
So there is this guy that I been seeing. Were not dating but were just messing around. I been friends with him for about 8 years. I'm starting to get feelings for him but there's one problem. He's one of my close friends ex boyfriends. They didn't date for long it was only for a month and change and this was 2 years ago. She has been dating someone else since then. The thing is that there still close friends and the rumor is that he still loves her and from what I hear from her is that sometimes she gets confused about what she feels for him. Should I continue getting deeper into this?? Or should I drop it and make things easier? :confused:

I need help!!

Personally, I prefer not going anywhere near my friends' exes. That can be too messy and too much drama. Besides, 6+ billion other people in the world, I'm sure you can find someone else to be happy with. Let them sort our their emotions.

I agree drop it , let him be and move on, never mess with a close friends ex

I agree with these two here... dating a friends ex esp if she still has feelings for him is a big no no... I had a friend once that kind of took a romantic interest in one of my exes and then she made the mistake of telling me about it... me and him never ended on bad terms and I still cared about him... I was so angry at her for even entertaining the thought... it like really hurt... u just don't do that.. its like an unspoken boundary you don't cross out of respect for the other person... trust me... being on the opposing end.. it sucks.. you should let this one be..