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When I'm at work my girl friend watches men on a gay porn site and gets off with bullet machine, is this normal , can't she wait until I get home, or does it mean I don't satisfy. Maybe I'm blowing this out of proportion. I don't know what to think, am I insecure, or will this lead to other things.

I wouldn't worry about it if you can talk to her about it. I would worry about it if she loses interest in you. I would tell her its OK to watch while your there,and watch it with her.well how long has this been going on ? Probably just curiosity.

I agree with kryostar, I think it's just curiosity... u shoud talk to her about that...

I think that if you can't talk to her about it, then you shouldn't be having sex or in a relationship with her to begin with.

Secondly--do YOU watch porn when SHE is not around? Is it ever LESBIAN porn? Does that mean you want your girlfriend to be a lesbian?

I think you're just being insecure, personally. If you don't like to watch men have sex with each other, then isn't the time when she's alone the best time to watch it?

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Originally Posted by owen1963

When I'm at work my girl friend watches men on a gay porn site and gets off with bullet machine, is this normal , can't she wait until i get home, or does it mean i don't satisfy. Maybe I'm blowing this out of proportion. I don't know what to think, am i insecure, or will this lead to other things.

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Is it normal? Don't know. What is normal again?

Should you be concerned or worried? No. Not even a little bit. It isn't a reflection upon you or your ability to satisfy her. If she were banging the milkman I would say otherwise but porn is safe and harmless. Don't worry about it.

She is doing the same thing you do when you watch porn, and don't tell me that you don't, she is making an elaborate fantasy about what she is seeing. It could be that the men in the Gay Porn are more attractive than the men in straight porn. It could be that straight porn doesn't really turn her one. Which is understandable because it is gear towards men. What woman would want to watch a porn star getting titty-f**ked when they know that act does thing to get the woman excited; 95% 19 times out of 20.

Ask her about it. She might be embarrassed about you finding her porn, but it could lead into conversations that will allow you to expand your sex life as a couple.

If it really bugs you talk to her. That goes for all aspects of the relationship. If something bugs you talk to her about it.

I have to agree... what is normal exactly? And do you watch lesbian porn? She may be turned on by that type of thing... successful part of a relationship is communcation... which means if you want to know ask about it and don't get mad when she tells you what she's thinking because after all you wanted to know