I Just to clear it up,I am NOt 100% Lesbian but ever this new girl came into my life, I have fallen hard. She defenetly has feelings for me and I for her but I just can't bring myself to kiss her. She has tried but I back off. I am ready to kiss her now.How do I start?

I know I have already asked you this,but your answer will give other posters a clearer view of how to offer advice,can I ask how old you are?

And have you ever kissed anyone else before?

Have you spoken to her about your feelings,has she spoken to you about hers.

Are you just curious about kissing her?

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Originally Posted by redhed35

i know i have already asked you this,but your answer will give other posters a clearer view of how to offer advice,can i ask how old you are?

and have you ever kissed anyone else before?

have you spoken to her about your feelings,has she spoken to you about hers.

are you just curious about kissing her?

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I am 17.

I have kissed many boys.

We have had brief conversations.

Well YEAH! But I have a "date" With her tonihgt- movie and she wants MAJOR MAKEOUT! But so do I.

If you are comfortable with the situation and feel its right for you then you will know when the time comes.

She may have more experience then you but don't let that scare you into thinking you HAVE to go ahead,you can stop anytime you want if your not sure or feel uncomfortable.

There is no shame is telling her you have never kissed a girl before,at least she will know.

If you are just curious,be straight with her,don't play games and don't play with her heart.

As I said in the beginning of my post,don't do anything your not comfortable with,the same as you would do if you were dating a boy.

You could always say to her your not sure about the kissing but do like her company.

I have many gay friends and none have being attracted to me nor I to them,but we can go to the cinema,or a night out and still have a good time.

Look. Just MakeOut! I did itonce at a party and Now I LOVE the thrill. Be a little NAUGHTY!