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  • Jul 31, 2010, 09:08 PM
    mimzoid
    When a girl has boyfriend but tell guy she doesn't want anyone to have him
    Okk so this girl that I've been talking to for 4 months and I start liking her 2 months ago she started to flirt with me and calls me her hubby and babe I told her I liked her and all that and tell her I loved her she said she loves me to and that she is in love with me we sleep together and cuddle like boyfriend and girlfriends do but we are friends which I don't get why still than I find out she has a boyfriend she never told me and after she told me that she wants me for herself and doesn't want anyone else to have me and she wants me to have child and all of that I'm just confused about her because I know she likes me what do I do??
  • Jul 31, 2010, 09:12 PM
    Kitkat22

    How old are both of you?
  • Jul 31, 2010, 09:14 PM
    mimzoid
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Kitkat22 View Post
    How old are both of you?

    I am 16 n she is 15
  • Jul 31, 2010, 09:23 PM
    Kitkat22

    She's using you. She has a boyfriend and you two sleeping and cuddling together is irresponsible.

    This is the real world young man , not an episode in a movie. You all need a baby like I need a need a
    Extra thumb.

    Shame on you for letting her use you and shame on her for being
    So free with her body.

    Grow up and move on. If the boyfriend finds out, you may get more than you bargained for.
  • Jul 31, 2010, 09:26 PM
    Clough
    Quote:

    Originally posted by mimzoid

    When a girl has boyfriend but tell guy she doesn't want anyone to have him
    Okk so this girl that I've been talking to for 4 months and I start liking her 2 months ago she started to flirt with me and calls me her hubby and babe I told her I liked her and all that and tell her I loved her she said she loves me to and that she is in love with me we sleep together and cuddle like boyfriend and girlfriends do but we are friends which I don't get why still than I find out she has a boyfriend she never told me and after she told me that she wants me for herself and doesn't want anyone else to have me and she wants me to have child and all of that I'm just confused about her because I know she likes me what do I do??
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by mimzoid View Post
    I am 16 n she is 15

    Hi, mimzoid!

    If you've slept together, does that mean that you've had sex with each other?

    Thanks!
  • Aug 1, 2010, 09:38 AM
    mimzoid
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Clough View Post
    Hi, mimzoid!

    If you've slept together, does that mean that you've had sex with each other?

    Thanks!

    Yea
  • Aug 1, 2010, 09:40 AM
    mimzoid
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Kitkat22 View Post
    She's using you. She has a boyfriend and you two sleeping and cuddling together is irresponsible.

    This is the real world young man , not an episode in a movie. You all need a baby like I need a need a
    extra thumb.

    Shame on you for letting her use you and shame on her for being
    so free with her body.

    Grow up and move on. If the boyfriend finds out, you may get more than you bargained for.

    You I know that but when she is with me she doesn't want to leave me and go back though but she says it feels right being with me and all that?
  • Aug 1, 2010, 11:31 AM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by mimzoid View Post
    ya i know that but when she is with me she doesn't want to leave me and go back tho but she says it feels right bein with me and all that?

    You are way too young to be having sex with a girl who may or may not "love"you. God help you both if a child is born. If you are as careless with a baby as you are about casual sex it's the baby who is going to suffer.I hope you don't have intentions of her becoming pregnant. You probably wouldn't even know which of you it belonged too, you or her boyfriend. Did you use a condom?
  • Aug 1, 2010, 12:00 PM
    mimzoid
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Kitkat22 View Post
    You are way too young to be having sex with a girl who may or may not "love"you. God help you both if a child is born. If you are as careless with a baby as you are about casual sex it's the baby who is going to suffer.I hope you don't have intentions of her becoming pregnant. You probably wouldn't even know which of you it belonged too, you or her boyfriend. Did you use a condom?

    Yes and she doesn't do that with her boyfriend though she was in to me more than him
  • Aug 1, 2010, 12:14 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by mimzoid View Post
    yes and she doesn't do that with her boyfriend tho she was in to me more than him

    If you believe that, I feel very sorry for you. You are being used.
  • Aug 1, 2010, 12:18 PM
    mimzoid
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Kitkat22 View Post
    If you believe that, I feel very sorry for you. You are being used.

    You I have the feeling that is why even though she said she is not when I asked but o well I'm just giving up she can just do whatever I would rather be her friend anyway
  • Aug 1, 2010, 12:20 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by mimzoid View Post
    ya i have the feeling that is why even tho she said she is not when i asked but o well im just giving up she can just do whatever i would rather be her friend anyways

    You'll never be able to be just friends after having sex... Leave her alone.
    She is a very troubled young lady.
  • Aug 1, 2010, 02:04 PM
    martinizing2

    Got to spread the rep KK. You are right in all your posts in this thread.

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