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  • Jul 30, 2010, 06:35 PM
    zuluwarrior
    My wife is the primary on the mortgage but wants to leave
    My girlfriend is the primary on the mortgage but she left. How can I put the house in my name. I haven't missed a payment and can easily afford the mortgage will the finance company put the house in my name. I am currently not working but will be soon. I have enough money in the bank to hold me over until I start working again.
  • Aug 2, 2010, 07:31 AM
    stevetcg

    If the mortgage is in her name, can we assume the deed is in her name too>?

    If so, the answer is no, since she owns the house, not you. You will have to buy or otherwise transfer ownership of the house from her.
  • Aug 2, 2010, 07:43 AM
    excon

    Hello z:

    Steve is right. But she ought to do it, because her credit is on the line if you miss a payment. It'll probably cost a couple hundred $$'s.

    excon
  • Aug 2, 2010, 09:29 AM
    ebaines

    Just to add - if your plan is to stay in the house, and assuming for a second that the house is actually yours (even though your wife - or was it your girl friend? - was paying the mortgage) then you will have to get a new mortgage in your name only. If you have no steady income that will be tough, even though you may have enough savings to pay it for a while. So you should either (a) plan on moving out and selling the house, or (b) work a deal where your ex-GF/wife pays the mortgage and you reimburse her.
  • Aug 2, 2010, 09:35 AM
    ScottGem

    The question is no who is on the mortgage, but who is on the deed. Mortgages can be refinanced, but it's the titleholder that matters.
  • Aug 2, 2010, 11:31 AM
    zuluwarrior
    How can my ex girlfriend get off the title and mortgage
    I asked this question earlier but I phrased it wrong. My ex girlfriend is the primary on the mortgage. I'm not sure about the title but I'm assuming she's first on that also. My name is on everything also but since she made more money at the time we put her name first She wants out of the whole thing. Is it possible to get her name off everything concerning the house without refinancing because when she left she also left all the bills and now my credit is messed up. Thank you for your earlier answers I just wanted to clarify my question. She wants out of the whole deal but I want to keep the house in my name only. Thanks.
  • Aug 2, 2010, 11:56 AM
    ebaines

    In general, it's best to add clarifying information to the original thread, rather than starting a new question, as it's easier for people to follow the conversation that way.

    The original post is here: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/mortga...ve-493470.html

    You still need to clarify whether you are joint owners with your ex-GF or not. If she was on the mortgage it seems likely that you are joint owers, but you need to make sure. Assuming you are joint owners: you can either (a) work together to sell the house, retire the mortgage and split whatever proceeds are left over, or (b) buy your ex-GF's portion of the house from her, at some agreed-to price. In either case your GF gets out of the mortgage obligation and receives whatever equity out of the house is hers. The problem is that if your credit is bad you may not be able to do (b), so you may have no choice but to sell the house(unless you have another friend lined up who is willing to co-sign on a new mortagge with you).

    Now, if by some strange circumstance your ex-GF is NOT on the deed but IS on the mortgage - then you're sitting pretty! It would have been stupid for her to agree to that, but stranger things have happened. In this case you can just sit there, maybe work a deal where you pay her a monthly amount to cover her mortgage obligation, but don't refinance under your name until your credit improves.
  • Aug 2, 2010, 11:59 AM
    ScottGem

    I've merged your threads for you. In the future please use the Answer This Questions options to add follow-up.

    As I said, the key here is how the title is worded. If you are joint owners, then you need to buy her out which means a refinancing. That's the only way you will get her name off.
  • Aug 2, 2010, 12:34 PM
    zuluwarrior

    Thank you very much guys!
  • Aug 2, 2010, 06:12 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Yes, if you don't know about the DEED ( not title) go to the court house and find out first who even owns the house. If she owns it and your name is not on it, then you would have to buy it from her. It is not as much as who is on the mortgage, as who is on the deed.

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