Originally Posted by monosita
My husband and I have a good sex life together , although it is getting less and less these days (we have been together for 8 years, married for 3) as it inevitably does. He works nights and I work days so we don't see much of each other which is another story. We occasionally enjoy watching porn together to spice things up, but not every time. When he was out of work about 4 years ago he downloaded about 70 mb of naked women from the net. I found it on his computer and a CD - he denied looking at it at first but I left the computer on one day with the disk in his computer and a naked woman on the screen. I was really hurt more than anything that he lied to me - he had looked me straight in the eye and told me he hadn't downloaded any naked women. I ended up taking the disc to work and destroying it. He rang me to ask where the disc was and I told him I had destroyed it - we had a bit of a fight about it but it eventually died down.
Anyhow, coming back to the porn - I found from the 'history' in explorer that he regularly looks at porn on his computer. When I've asked him about it in the past he's got angry with me for snooping. Maybe I shouldn't snoop I know - but I can't help it because he lied to me in the past about it. I don't like the idea that he is getting turned on by this stuff when I'm not there and feel that he's all 'spent' when it comes to me! He also says he likes looking at cleavages and so whenever any woman has one when we're around I feel uncomfortable and feel that he's looking at them - I often find him looking directly at their chests and I don't like it. He says that I am controlling and he doesn't feel that he can do anything and that he should wear blinkers when he is around me. Am I being too sensitive???