I have 3 sons and 1 daughter 8 grandchildren my 3 sons work for me and I have always tried to help when ever they ask my oldest has been with the same girl for about 11yrs. They have a son together and 1 she already had my boys are great dads and husbands and sons and workers she is the only one in the family that didn't work she wanted her own primitive store so I helped them get it and she thought I was yhe best but 7-9 months later it all has gone wrong over xmas rugs she cursed me told me not to come back to her store again I just couldn't understand but then she made my son quit me and he did and he cursed me so I said fine ill get my refrigerator I let her use but she wanted my son to bring to the house so he could tell my husband off I said no I did not want any fighting I would get 2 other men to get so I would not put my other 2 sons in the middle she said OK so I waited for the 2 men to show and they do she is on the porch of her store so I walk up and ask her if she wants them to load at front or back she says they are not going in her store so they get ready to go to the back and I go to follow her as she opens the door I go to go in she pushes me and punches me I'm shocked and tell her I will not fight her she was my grandsons mom I just want the refridge and start to go back in she really hit and pushes and I fall over a trunk on the porch I start to get up and she pushes and hits me behind I am almost over a railing she keeps hitting me in back and neck which I had neck surgery and she has made me have problems with so I kick her off and my foot hits her window she call the police which now made me suspect her victom I do not understand and so the cops show up then my son because she called him he gets out says I am a f... idiot and he hates me I am so confused my other sons do not understand he won't listen to them or my daughter they had their own house but put it for sale moved in with her ex father in law and he does everything for her and he has a son and daughter and other grandkids and does nothing to help them could any body tell me what I should do and how could I find out why this happened