I meant we go to have sex and he says he wants it but it rasies a little and then he goes to kissing on me and then mister turtle is sunk all the way in his shell if you know what I mean and yes I've been sick a lot and he's not got any but is the reason not to give it to me now he says he's not atracted to me anymore so I just want to know do I still try to make my marrigie work or move on thanks cindy I think I deserve better

Where is Alty when I need her? She can usually translate these kinds of threads...

Hello lou66,

First off, please don't type text style, it's hard to understand your question. Thanks.

Okay, so from what I gather, your husband is not attracted to you anymore? Have you asked him why not?

How old are you two?

How long have the two of you been married?

How long has he felt this way about you?

Was he originally attracted to you from the start?

Thank you.

Call your doctor and tell him you need sample of I think its called c-alice--not real sure of spelling---your husband just needs a little assistance and probably doesn't know what's going on except to blame you.

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Originally Posted by answerme_tender

call your doctor and tell him you need sample of I think its called c-alice--not real sure of spelling---your husband just needs alittle assistance and probably doesnt know whats going on except to blame you.

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I think you should try to understand he may have a medical condition which is not his fault. If he does have a medical condition it doesn't matter if you do a nude belly dance he still won't be able to respond.

Stop making him feel guilty about it. Cilias and Viagra are the two medicines that come to mind. Take him to a doctor. The turtle will come out of it's shell again, if you know what I mean.