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  • Jul 28, 2010, 06:20 AM
    AiaROZE
    He asked me out . WHAT ?
    ( Sorry if my English is bad )

    Well there is a guy I know since I was a child I don't remember every thing but I remember that he used to tease me . He sometime say to my best friend that she is pretty in front of me . I got jealous and became angry at him He just tease me a lot and make me angry and then start to laugh at me I hate him for that I even spread Rumors about him with my friends ( yeah I know I was a bad girl )Now when we grow up we don't see each other very much but when we meet he ignore me we even don't make eye contact at all .

    But from nowhere he asked me out . WHAT ?
    I always thought that he hate me and that he don't like me at all ?

    I am really confused.
  • Jul 28, 2010, 06:24 AM
    martinizing2

    How old were you when this started and how old are you now?
    As people grow and mature they can change.
  • Jul 28, 2010, 06:27 AM
    AiaROZE

    I was 7 or 8 and he was 10 or 11 .


    Oh I got the age wrong ( I forget really when it's happen )
    I think I was 11 and he was 14..
  • Jul 28, 2010, 07:13 AM
    martinizing2

    How old are you now?
  • Jul 28, 2010, 07:18 AM
    AiaROZE
    21


    I will be 22 after 2 month
  • Jul 28, 2010, 07:29 AM
    Shadowburn

    Umm, just because he teased you when you were kids doesn't mean that now when you're both grown, you're not attractive to him. Maybe he was actually stunned that little silly and annoying girl that he remembered has developed into pretty young woman, and now he is interested in getting to know this new you.
    What exactly is your question? Why did he ask you out? There is only one answer - because he likes you:)
  • Jul 28, 2010, 07:39 AM
    AiaROZE

    But he always ignore me . I don't hate him at all . In fact 2 years ago I had a crush on him but he ignore and don't talk to me . So I give up on him
  • Jul 28, 2010, 07:45 AM
    Shadowburn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by AiaROZE View Post
    But he always ignore me . I don't hate him at all . In fact 2 years ago I had a crush on him but he ignore and don't talk to me . so I give up on him

    Well, go out with him and see how will it go. He is definitely interested in you now, or he wouldn't' bother asking you out.
  • Jul 28, 2010, 07:45 AM
    AiaROZE

    IF HE LIKE ME WHY HE WAS IGNORING ME ?
    I felt in pain when I had crush on him before .
  • Jul 28, 2010, 07:48 AM
    Shadowburn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by AiaROZE View Post
    IF HE LIKE ME WHY HE WAS IGNORING ME ?
    I felt in pain when I had crush on him before .

    That was like two years ago. Maybe he had a girlfriend back then, maybe he was not interested in your back then, who knows.
    Stop focusing so much on his why's because he may not know the answer himself, do you want to go out with him or not?
  • Jul 28, 2010, 08:10 AM
    AiaROZE

    I don't want to go out with him but in the same time I want to give him a chance and see how much he change well I think if I said "no" it over between us I don't think there we will be even a chance to be friends .
  • Jul 28, 2010, 08:27 AM
    martinizing2

    I think you should go out with him and ask him these questions you ask us.

    He is the one with the answers I think.

    You might be very pleasantly surprised.
  • Jul 28, 2010, 10:15 AM
    Homegirl 50
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by AiaROZE View Post
    I don't want to go out with him but in the same time i want to give him a chance and see how much he change well I think if I said "no" it over between us I don't think there we will be even a chance to be friends .

    If you don't want to go out with him what is the point of your question? Call him on the phone and ask him whatever you want to ask him or e-mail him.
    He's asked for a date not a relationship. Go out and talk, then maybe you'll find out whatever it is you are wanting to know.
    I'm sure or at least I hope he is not the same person he was when he was 14.
  • Aug 1, 2010, 09:17 AM
    talaniman

    You don't have to go out to ask him your questions, or clear past misunderstandings.

    As for saying NO, because you don't want to go out with him, at least that would be HONEST of you.

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