Originally Posted by bulldog08390
Me and my boyfriend have been 2gether for 4 months now. In these 4 months, we've benn through so much. It seems like we have nothing but problems. He thinks im needy, even though he knows im self independent. He thinks i have 2 much pride in myself and i told him that if no one else is gonna tell me i look good then i have to keep my self esteem up. I told him that he nevers listens because he never does. He still doesnt know that when im mad, i like 2 be left alone until i solve it. After i solve it and figure things out in my head, i come to him so we can talk. During the 2nd month that we were together, i found out that he was going with some other guy while he was still with me. He said he didnt tell me because he didnt want 2 hurt my feelings. We've have 2 big arguments that almost lead 2 us splittin up but i knew that we would get over it. It turned out i was wrong. We had one more fight and he actually had the nerve 2 bring up evey problem we've ever had in our relationship from day 1. He was yellin and cussin at me for no reason. Earlier that day, i told him that i didnt want him 2 talk 2 me because i was mad. He decided not to listen(like he always does)and he went off. All i wanted 2 tell him was that i needed a lttle bit of space but he nevers let me say anythin. By the time, he was done cussin me, i wasnt mad because i wanted space. I was FURIOUS because he told me everything that he thought i did wrong and how i was hurtin him when throughout this entire relationship, he's been hurtin me. To top it all off, he's in love with another boy. :mad: HIS BEST FRIEND!!!:mad: I keep tryin 2 tell him that i already know but he wont listen and he tries 2 tell me that he isnt. After all of that was said and done, I broke up with him. Now, everyone that knows we were 2gether says that he is hurt and that he wants 2 apologize. Im not sure if itll be sincere because ive told him 2 change b 4 and he never did. Should i take him back?
