I am 27years old and I have been involved with a woman that is 54 years old.We have been separated for 1year 5months.We still talk on the telephone,but;she says we can't be together until I get a car or a job. I a confused am I don't know what to do.  

I'm confused too. Why can't you get a car and a job?That doesn't appear to be asking much of a 27 year old. Also, why are you interested in a 54 year old? Have you convinced yourself that you can do no better?
All very intriging!!

dwalex

I am confused also. Why can't you get a car and a job?? You are 27 years old and you show be responsible for yourself at this point. Why does that seem so foreign to you? Adults take care of themselves.