I need help. I'm young and I was completely trashed one night and I barely remember anything I did. But one thing I remember is thinking I did sexual things with this guy. But I don't compltely remember everything so I don't know what to do about it because the guy doesn't remember. I think his penis might have went in me one time but that's it.. what are the chances of being pregnant?

Just wondering if anyone out there knows if the chances of being pregnant would be lower if you had sex with someone related to you, than with someone non-related?

Same chances.

Sperm does not know your related.

However there may be genetic problems with the baby depending on how close the relative.

There will be other posters who may be able to give a more comprehensive answer.

How long ago was it?

Have you had a period since?

Have you taken a test?

Is this question related to your other question?

It was 2 days ago
I haven't had it, I'm new with the period thing so my period isn't consistent
I haven't taken a test because I don't know how long you have to wait
And yes it is related

OK,for the sake of keeping all your posts and answers on one thread,stick with this one,that way you will get all the answers to your post together.

Can I ask what age you are?

What if it only went in you one time though?

I'm 15, can you please tell me that I'm probably not pregnant? I'm not sure if it went in me & what if it was only one time and that's it like in out done

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Originally Posted by penguin52

what if it only went in you one time though?

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Go back into your other thread and all your questions and answers will stay on the one thread,less confusing for you and other posters.

Yes,even if it was in for a minute.

I'm afraid I can't tell you if your pregnant or not,no one on line can tell you that.

If it was less then 72 hours,you can still get the morning after pill,the sooner the better.

You need to tell someone,I know that sounds scary,but the sooner you go to the doctor the better.

How about your mother?

I can't tell anyone.
If I get my period, I'm not pregnant right?
And what dos the morning after pill do?

If you get your period your not pregnant,however you did say that your periods were not regular.

Your best option is to see your doctor.

Are you willing to take a chance?

It's a big gamble and if your pregnant its not going to go away if you ignore it.

As scary as it is,telling someone now while they can help is a lot better then having to say your pregnant,should that happen.

How about an aunt,a sister?

Can I ask what age the guy was? Is he related to you,and how close?

As far as I know you CAN still get your period even if you are pregnant. I was a month along and I was still spotting.
Here's a link to a Google search for the morning after pill.
morning after pill - Google Search

Here's some advice... you can take it or leave it, your choice. I would advise you to get yourself on some sort of birth control and also to not get trashed. At 15 you still have your entire life ahead of you. Not only do you run the risk of an unwanted pregnancy, but you also run the risk of some pretty serious STD's, which can cause you mild discomfort, embarrassment, harm your reproductive organs and make it difficult for you to conceive when you are ready for children, or even can kill you. I hope everything works out for you.

He is my age, 15
And 1st cousin
I'm tlking to him now about the whole thing and he told me we didn't have sx.. but we did stuff

Unfortunately if you had un protected sex, even for one second, than yes there are chances that you are pregnant.

I know you don't need a lecture right now, and I am biting my toung on wanting to tell you how irresponsible it was to get so trashed at such a young age. I have to ask, do you think this sex was consensual? You said you were related, how closely are you related? Why do you think that you had sex?

There's a chance you're pregnant even if you get your period, especially if it's not regular.

Even if the guy's penis doesn't go completely in, you could get pregnant if sperm end up inside you.

Every time you have sex, even with protection, you take a chance of getting pregnant. The best way to manage your life is to not have sex if you can't afford or if you don't want a baby.

The morning-after pill prevents the fertilized egg from attaching to your uterus and starting to grow. This egg is then expelled from your body, sort of like having a period.

From Emergency Contraception (Morning After Pill) - Planned Parenthood

Emergency Contraception (Morning After Pill) at a Glance
* Birth control you can use to prevent pregnancy up to five days (120 hours) after unprotected sex
* Safe and effective
* Available at health centers and drugstores
* Costs vary from $10 to $70

Legally in the US, if she was drunk. It cannot be consensual because she was not in the state of mind to consent. Something I learned from my law course

He's telling me he remembers now & that he's 100 percent sure we didn't have sex. I know it was irresponsble & I'm extremely dissapointed in myself. So please don't lecture me I already know. I not one of those trashy girls who does that I'm actually a good kid who made a big mistake.

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Originally Posted by penguin52

he is my age, 15
and 1st cousin
im tlking to him now about the whole thing and he told me we didnt have sx..but we did stuff

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Lets leave the getting trashed thing to the side for the moment,and lets talk about the 'stuff'.

Doing 'stuff' can still get you pregnant.

I can only urge you to see a doctor, if neither of one can remember exactly ,then you nor him can guess every thing is OK,just because you really wish it is.

You have to think,you have be mature about this,both of you.

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Originally Posted by penguin52

he is my age, 15
and 1st cousin
im tlking to him now about the whole thing and he told me we didnt have sx..but we did stuff

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Hi... I know you're scared. I would be terrified. Listen to me.. We are here to help you and we will not judge you. We have no idead of who you are or where you live Ok?

This cousin who you had sex with, did he force you in any way? Remember what Red said and she's very smart.. you need to talk to your mom. If you feel she won't understand talk to us. OK?