Is it a "cop out" to cheat on someone and then not tell them what you did?
I've heard so often "I can't tell them I cheated on them b/c it would really hurt them." That seems so hypocritical to me. If the person was so concerned about "hurting" them, they probably wouldn't have cheated in the first place! Does anyone else agree that this line is simply a rationalization because a person doesn't want to go through the "hard work" inherent in being honest with someone?? Just seems to me like you're cheating yourself out of a truly intimate relationship by keeping secrets. Secrets = Zero Intimacy in my book... anyone else agree or disagree??