I really like this guy but he is a gay I have had realationships with him also he has a boyfriend I wish he was with me can I make him straight

Hi, nancy25!

If he's truly gay, then no, you can't make him straight. However, it could be that he's bisexual. Have you spoken with him about your thoughts and feelings, please?

Thanks!

Well some gay men do find themselves attracted to women (occassionally and quite rarely) but their main attraction is towards men. So you'll have twice the competition! :)

Honestly, unless he is bisexual and open about it, doubtful you'll persuade him to stop being gay. If he is into you though, then my feeling is he is bisexual (attracted to men and women).