So here's what's going on... I believe that my girlfriend is cheating on me I saw some of here comments she left this guy and it's the same things she's always telling me and it just killed me when I read what she was saying to him its like I'm just here being stepped on we've broken up once but it was over a little thing... anyways... I haven't confronted her about this at all I just need some help about what to do we've been together over a month but we've known each other for over a year and we were very close but know I feel like we aren't she says she waited for me when we weren't together but I find that hard to believe.. and th funny thing is she told she gave advice to one of hr friends on how to cheat.ugh I need help someone please tell me what to do I'm so hurt by this.. I thought she loved me...

If this is really bothering you you need to be honest and talk to her. Do not be over aggressive but make her understand that this is how you feel. It is better to discuss things than to let yourself go mad
Cheers

If you've only been together a month and you've already broken up once, this sounds like a rocky beginning. It's almost like you are not really together yet. Maybe when you broke up before she thought you had dumped her?

Try not to overreact. I would talk to her, but remain calm. You sound over agitated and hair trigger.

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Originally Posted by Ithappenstoall

If this is really bothering you you need to be honest and talk to her. Do not be over aggressive but make her understand that this is how you feel. it is better to discuss things than to let yourself go mad
cheers

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Thanks for the help

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Originally Posted by asking

If you've only been together a month and you've already broken up once, this sounds like a rocky beginning. It's almost like you are not really together yet. Maybe when you broke up before she thought you had dumped her?

Try not to overreact. I would talk to her, but remain calm. You sound over agitated and hair trigger.

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Yes I know I do I am I've been through this being cheated on it hurts I can't go through it again with her she's.. everything to me... thanks for the help

You need to talk to her and tell her that you're unhappy with the way she's been texting other males, and that if she's going to continue in this manner then you'll be taking a walk, and not coming back, that way she's been given a chance to stop what she does, and if she doesn't you'll know the score...

The relationship is still very young, and you need to set ground rules or forget it.

In general, if you have to ask, then you probably shouldn't be in a relationship with that person.

I think that already you are having issues and it is not even serious. If the honeymoon stage is already shaky I would drop it

Regards
Ithappenstoall

Talk to her, and listen, but be firm that you won't be stepped on. Even if she is your everything, that doesn't mean she can treat you like a dog.

Oh jeez, I had a similar situation about a year back, I ended up buying a gps tracker and finding out why she was out so late, I think you can assume why. I got a gps tracker.