I don't know how to ask this question or what result will come out of it, but my wife Martha and I have been together for 7 yrs and recently got married. Since Ive been with this new familiy it always seems that ONE of her sisters is always talking ugly, negative about me. She calls me the scum of the earth. But when she does come over or there are familiy reunions she acts as if nothing ever happened and her attitude towards me changes. My wife and I are leaving the State of Texas for a more brighter future in Puerto Rico, and it seems like the closer we get to our departing date the more BS comes out and ugly lies. So please can you help me with what is wrong with my one sister in law that does not have a life, is very promiscuous, and is constantly trying to find a way to break me and my wife's relationship up. This one sister in law, was married once and decided to stay single cause as she puts it there are no men in her status or bracket financially. Just for the record, I do very well with the money I make yearly and can truly say Im out of her bracket as she puts it, but still calls me the scum of the earth, why is that?

No men in her status or bracket financially, huh? She must be the single most high-falutin'est wealthiest person on the planet. Or, no one can stand to be around her and she's turned into a bitter man hater. She could also be jealous that her sister has "landed one" while she herself is still single.

I am sorry. It's not clear what your question is. You said a lot of negative things about her and it sounds like the feeling is mutual. There aren't enough specifics here to know what the problem between you two is.

And you haven't really asked any question except "what is wrong with her." Obviously all we know about her is what you just said.

What reasons does she give for thinking you are "scum of the earth"?

Also, does your wife want to move to Puerto Rico?