I am 20 years old. My boyfriend and I use the pullout method for about 2 months now. Last month I had period. However, every time he cums, he just wipes and we keep going. Is that safe. I also lost about 10lbs since my last period. My period is now 3 days late, and I get lightheaded every time I get up from sitting or lying down. Could I be pregnant, or am I late because I lost weight.

Pulling out is NOT a birth control method!!

Yes, you could be pregnant. Have you tested yourself?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Pulling out is NOT a birth control method!!!

Yes, you could be pregnant. Have you tested yourself?

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I did this morning, however nothing showed up. Not a negative or pos. It had a control screen, and nothing should up there so I guess that meant I didn't do it right.
I was planning on taking it tomorrow morning, but thought I wait for another few days. What would you recommend

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Originally Posted by inferno786

I did this morning, however nothing showed up. not a neg or pos. It had a control screen, and nothing should up there so i guess that meant i didnt do it right.
I was planning on taking it tomorrow morning, but thought i wait for another few days. What would you recomend

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I'd wait for a few days.

Just out of curiosity, who told you the pull-out method is any kind of birth control?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

I'd wait for a few days.

Just out of curiosity, who told you the pull-out method is any kind of birth control?

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Well when my boyfriend and I first started being physically active, we didn't have a condom and he just pulled out. After that, it just kind of stuck with us, and we never used a condom. We is very careful with it. And he knows when he is about to go. We never had a problem before, so I'm not sure what went wrong this time.

Your attempt at birth control is basically the roll of the dice.

Sperm is present BEFORE and AFTER he ejaculates.

I hope that this works out for you. Please be more careful in the future.

Pregnancy can occur THROUGH a condom.

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Originally Posted by inferno786

well when my boyfriend and i first started being physically active, we didnt have a condom and he just pulled out. After that, it just kind of stuck with us, and we never used a condom. We is very careful with it. And he knows when he is about to go. We never had a problem before, so im not sure what went wrong this time.

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You were just darn lucky in the past. Once he is inside you, it is already too late. Those sneaky little sperm are leaking out even before he climaxes.

Women have gotten pregnant using even three forms of birth control. If you don't want to be a parent, don't have sex.

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Originally Posted by jmjoseph

Your attempt at birth control is basically the roll of the dice.

Sperm is present BEFORE and AFTER he ejaculates.

I hope that this works out for you. Please be more careful in the future.

Pregnancy can occur THROUGH a condom.

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Is there sperm present in Pre-?
What if he cums the first time, and doesn't urinate afterwards?

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Originally Posted by inferno786

Is there sperm present in Pre-?

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Yes.

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if so what are the chances of getting pregnant with it

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As long as there are sperm lurking and moving and traveling to an egg, there is a chance of getting pregnant.

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I am not ready, and I plan on talking to my boyfriend about not having sex anymore

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Thank you!

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Originally Posted by inferno786

I am 20 years old. My boyfriend and I use the pullout method for about 2 months now. Last month I had period. However, everytime he cums, he just wipes and we keep going. Is that safe. I also lost about 10lbs since my last period. My period is now 3 days late, and i get lightheaded everytime i get up from sitting or lying down. Could i be pregnant, or am i late because i lost weight.

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No, reentering after ejaculation is not safe, it is the main way couples mistakenly use the withdrawal method. Some sperm can still be present, even after ejaculation, wiping off, and using the toilet.

Being lightheaded can be from pregnancy, from a positional drop in blood pressure, being a bit dehydrated, inner ear issues, etc..

Since you are late, and have possible symptoms, try a pregnancy test. If negative, give it several more days and see if your period is just off; test again if necessary or see your doctor about having a test done there.

This is my second post.
I am about 5 days late on my period, I have had unprotected sex. Around the time I was suppose to get my period, I was getting a few symptoms such as... Severe Bloating, Freq Urination, Minor Cramping, Constipation, Fatigue, and minor Nausea.

I have heard about implantation bleeding, however, I was told it happens BEFORE you expect your period... Today I notice some white discharge mixed in with some brownish discharge. I took a pregnancy test this morning, and it came back negative. I am experiencing some minor cramping now. Can I still be pregnant?

It is one possibility but go and see your doctor and get a correct diagnoses.