HOw to find out if your best friend slept with your boyfriend.
Well.. These two are exes now. Im not going to go into much detail, because it's a long story. But, basically, I started dating this guy last year (Lets call him "Tony") that I'd known for a couple of years. It was great. But then some not-so-great things happened and we broke up. We still kind of messed around a few times after that (I couldn't help it then.. he was my first.) but we got back together at the beginning of this year. Naturally, my best friend, "Tasha", and he became good friends, as well. Me and her have been besties ever since third grade (almost 10 yrs; we had a two year gap after she got taken out of 7th grade for home schooling. But then we found each other on Myspace and became good friends again.)
Tasha has a very outgoing, funloving personality(sometimes a little flirty) and is really into church; Im more of the quiet type. But, back to the story- Naturally, they became good friends, as well. She had a car, so she'd go pick him up for me sometimes so we could all hang out (I never asked; she just did it as a surprise for me) and she'd drop me off then him off ("His house is closer on the way to my house." And it was by a little bit.).
But then, on one of those nights, we were hanging out, and she dropped me off and told me to call her. When I did, she didn't answer; he didn't answer, either, so I called her again. She answered and said they were coming back to get me. So I went out, and waited for ten minutes. They never came. I got this really sick feeling in my stomach, like I couldn't breath or had to throw up, so I went in. I just had this strong feeling of "Omg.. What if they're having sex somewhere.." I could never get that feeling out of my head from that moment on.
Then, maybe a month or so later, me and Tony were on the phone, and he started talking all serious, about how he needed to change and all that. Then he told me that Tasha's baby (she's preggers) might be his. I didn't want to believe it at first and he called me out on that. Then he told me to mute my phone and he called her. He started to talk, but then the phone hung up (her line- I don't know who really hung up). I asked him when did they have sex, and he said a couple weeks ago. (No, we weren't together after that.) After school the next day, I called her up, talked a little bit, then said (casually), "So.. when were you gonna tell me you had sex with Tony?" She denied it, and said that anyone that knows her knows she wouldn't do something like that. Then she wanted me to call here soon as I got on the phone with him. When I talked to him about it, he said he was joking(I was pissed). So, me and her and him remained friends, and it was back to old times (I didn't tell them about my feelings I was still having about the two of them.) Eventually, it ended our friendship. Then, me and his friendship ended, too (those two are still friends, though). When me and his friendship ended, he left an angry voicemail on my phone (he thought I had hacked onto his page) and at the end of it, he said he did sleep with Tasha.
You can ask for more details (yes, there IS more), but I'm just trying to figure out if they slept together or not. I know the only people that would know would be those two (and God), but I just wish someone were honest with me. I just want to know what you think.
Thanks! =]
