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  • Jul 20, 2010, 11:46 AM
    bankye
    Ask me help desk relationships
    How does one cope in a relationship that the person is taken for granted
  • Jul 20, 2010, 11:49 AM
    redhed35

    Instead of trying to cope you sit down with the other person and you talk,and talk and talk.

    And you keep doing that until they SEE how you feel your being taken for granted.

    Perhaps they don't even realise you feel this way.
  • Jul 20, 2010, 12:36 PM
    Homegirl 50
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by redhed35 View Post
    instead of trying to cope you sit down with the other person and you talk,and talk and talk.

    and you keep doing that untill they SEE how you feel your being taken for granted.

    perhaps they dont even realise you feel this way.

    And after you have done this and there is not change or understanding, you walk away.
    No one should have to cope with being ignored or treated poorly. You are treated the way you allow yourself to be treated.
  • Jul 20, 2010, 03:53 PM
    positiveparent

    I agree with both posters above, have to spread the rep though..
  • Jul 21, 2010, 08:03 AM
    talaniman

    If talking doesn't work, you leave.

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