So basically I'm back on the market. New to dating.. havent done it in like 3 years almost. And I don't know why but men are only into sex and whether they get it or not they won't talk to you.. they say they want more.. and that's a freaking lie.. I have no idea why men can't just have a girl to love and spend time with... what's so hard about that.. I'm not asking to get married but all I want is someone in my life! HELP

We women tend to ask our self that all the time. It just takes patients to find the right guy don't rush. You are not obligated to give any men sex and if they are not talking to you after you refuse then they are not the right men for you. Trust me you are a women have to take control, men will respect you even more if you show confidence and know what you want.

We can't generalize the entire male population. But one thing is clear, you keep meeting the same type of guys.

I suggest that you meet more people (especally in different settings), then you'll see more diversity. Be open to making more new friends in different environments.

I wish put it best -- the kinds of guys you want are out there, but it seems like you keep running into the guys that want just sex.

Maybe you are actually meeting the guys who will want something more from you but you turn them away... or maybe you're just putting yourself in places that tend to have these shallow guys who want only sex.

Where do you typically meet men? When you meet someone, how do you initially decide if you'll give them your number/see them?