Hello.. ive been dating my boyfriend for a while now and I have lost my virginity to him. Every time we have sex I never get an orgasm. And I'm starting to wonder why not? Is it just me that is the problem?

I'm a plus size girl and he's in the small/medium category. He has never inside of me or even close to it. Is it because I'm too big for him? Is my vagina not pleasing him enough that he won't ?

I'm sorry, but you will have to ask him these questions. There is no way we know what he is thinking or feeling.

I understand that it is not uncommon for women not to have an orgasm during sex for the first few times for some , and not till years later for others. I can't speak from personal experience , but understand it can happen.

I doubt your size has anything to do with it. You are new at this and
It will take time to learn and understand what works for you and your partner. Talk to him about what pleases him and tell him what pleases you'. You'll stand a much better chance of finding the magic combination that works for you.

It takes practice.

Can I ask how old you both are please? Was your partner also a virgin?

To add, many women only have clitoral orgasms, never vaginal orgasms.

Does your partner know where to stimulate you for you to have an orgasm?

If you're not sure, it's the clitoris which is just above your vaginal opening. There's a small piece of fleshy grissle its just below your pubic hair and above the vagina, that's where he needs to stimulate you.

Without him stimulating this area then the chances of you having an orgasm are very slim.