He is the thing am a 33 yr old male and like blondes and don't know why because I can't get a date with a blonde women
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He is the thing am a 33 yr old male and like blondes and don't know why because I can't get a date with a blonde women
Can't? How many blondes have you asked out?
Hi, stephen19690_2!
Have you ever been attracted at all to women who have hair color that's not blonde, please?
Thanks!
Are you blonde? If so you may prefer blondes because you can't understand what brunettes , and redheads are saying.
Just a little humor. Very little.
But seriously I cannot explain my preferences in women or why some colors are more appealing than others or why I prefer red wine over white. It seems to be a part of a persons basic make up.
And your ability to not be able to get dates with blondes could be some of the allure. You want most what you can't have.
Don't get discouraged. If you shower occasionally, and be polite honest and sincere in your approach you can get a blonde date.
Don't be ashamed of your taste, it's just personal preference. Accept it!
As for not being able to get a date. Just keep meeting new people. It's not always easy to find chemistry with every person that you meet. But the more people you meet, the more chance you have to find someone that you enjoy conversing with.
Seriously, do you know how many 'blondes'are from a bottle anyway..
You are looking for eye candy,outward appearance for others(and yes,your) benefit.
If you stop looking at the outsides and LISTEN to what someone SAYS,body language,gestures,eye contact.etc.You might find that there are MANY women who already would like to spend time with you,but your off looking for something that may or may not be available to you.
Miss right might be passing you by while you are online reading this right now, and she's a brunette.. You never know:)
Probably because you have never been on a date with a redhead:D
Professional answer:Quote:
Originally Posted by stephen19690_2
You are fixated on the colour of their hair as somehow indicative of the type of person you perceive them to be. That they reject you, means that they realize how shallow your assumptions are about the type of person they really are.
Drooling is a dead giveaway, so is staring at their boobs.
Practical answer:
It is statistically impossible for you to NEVER date a blonde woman- because sooner or later you will meet one who's hair colour does not determine any pre conceived notions by either party.
It's no diffent than saying you will never date a fat woman, or a too tall woman, or a woman with less than an associate degree. These are all things- including hair colour- that give you an impression on whether you wish to pursue contact.
If you were in a room with a hundred blonde women, you would fine one that was interested in you.
And don't forget- the recently new blonde, may very well be a brunette who had no success meeting men with brown hair. Or, she could be trying to attract men just to feel better about herself.
Maybe the next time you meet a blonde, try imagining her with brown hair, or red hair, and force the blonde from your mind. That will put you in a different mindset. Chances are, she's likely one or the other anyway.
When I was single I never cheated myself out of any potential female company. Hair color would be on the bottom of the list of disqualifying factors. Bad attitude being near the top.
Brunettes, Sophia Loren,Raquel Welch types, were my favorite. But God bless the redheads! Ann Margret is still a fox. Blondes were nice, but not preferred as much. I don't know why, because I married one (strawberry blonde), and she's an angel.
I always was attracted to a woman's eyes first. Well...
You like what you like. But try variety.
The world is full of single women of all types.
Good luck.
If you like blondes, fine - go for blondes. They aren't turning you down because they are blonde - separate issues. Ask your friends why they think you aren't getting dates with women you find attractive. It may be how you approach them or something.
I don't think there's anything wrong with having some shallow preferences on what we find physically attractive - just be reasonable so that you don't eliminate from consideration people who are a little outside that description who would be great for you in other, more important ways.
Since the OP hasn't returned, I can only surmise Jake hit the nail on the head with this. I keep forgetting to not drink hot coffee when I am reading responses. I laughed and it went up my nose. :oQuote:
Originally Posted by Jake2008
Stephen, women don't go for that no matter what color their hair is. Sniffing them is also a huge no-no.
Sniffing... I missed that and Jake has made me spew coke or coffe all overQuote:
Originally Posted by Just_Another_Lemming
My lap top.:D Sniffing? :eek:
Maybe I should have been more specific.
Not like a dog KK! Although it is very dog like behavior that goes hand in hand with drooling and staring at the boobs. Haven't you ever seen a guy stand behind a woman and sniff her hair?
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Originally Posted by Just_Another_Lemming
I knew that (NOT) yes I have seen that and drooling . I couldn't help myself, my husband was wearing "Stetson" and had just washed his hair in coconut shampoo! Didn't know anyone saw me.:D or the drool:eek:
As a redhead I can only say.
You don't know what your missing.
While your waiting for the blonde dream,check out the other ladies,wheres the harm.
I also saw you look at is boobs!
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Originally Posted by redhed35
Redheads are the "BOMB".:cool:
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Originally Posted by redhed35
Redheads are the "BOMB".:cool: Lemming I did look.:D
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