3yr dvorce process I gt kids&pets aftr/15yrs, X stll acuses me of stealng frm him
My X has accused me of all sorts of crimes over the past 3 yrs. He has stalked me, etc. threatened to and has show caused me for false things, threatened to report my 12 yrs. Dog to Animal Control because he didn't believe she was taken care of and had her rabies shot; accused me of stealing my children's toys; accusing my Mother of being an alcoholic; reported me to police for stealing from him; and before I HAD to leave, he closed out our joint accts. And over the years spent our money and I get no support and I have the children 24/7. He has caused and continues to attempt to have go to therapy to cause me to incur costs and fees I can't afford; but this is about the continued threats to report me to police for stealing and his continuing to contact the GAL telling him that I should be in therapy. He accused me of alienating our children, which I have not done and caused lots of court ordered therapy for all of us, and he won't stop harassing me in e-mails with false accusations and threats about going back to court, etc. The divorce is final and I got none of the items of our life together and none of our joint money, etc. I am having a very difficult time continuing to "let it go". I've been in therapy and in hypnosis to try to help me, and it has, but his harassing e-mails must stop. I'm trying to put into practice all the things I have learned from therapy, but there has to be some way to stop the continued highly emotionally accusations from this X. I don't want to take him to court, I've spent money I don't have and so much time getting through this process (no lawyer half of the time). I don't have time, money or energy as I am a single parent of our two teens and the sole supporter and provider for them and I an unemployable, so I make work for myself. I can't continue to take this kind of time and I have absolutely no money to pursue this. How can I stop him?
To answer why for you, thanks. Can i sue him to stop him?
Part of the reason it is almost impossible to "block" him is because we were in court ordered "co-parenting". I'm ordered to inform him of the children's doc appts and school meetings. He knows where I am, very often. It's all wrong, I have my personal safety to consider, but I can't influence the kid's thinking other than their father is a man that cares for them. One sees him when she wants to, he bought her a car, the other does not want to see him at all, for his own reasons. That is beginning to work out for my son. This as been really difficult. I have two Police reports in on the X now. It's hard to get into court again, without the kids being involved and I hate to do that even though they are teens. It's too hard.