I have been in a physical relation with this guy and we're great together.. the chemistry and everything... we lived together (with other friends around) for about 7 months and then he had to leave to another place and since then we video chat and talk on phone everyday.. hes coming over to visit me next month.. all this looks good... but the problem is whenever I ask him - I need to know where this is going.. he says he's got no clue.. says he doesn't believe in commitment.. and one day he said we have to stop if you're expecting stuff because he doesn't want to hurt me.. and then again we never spoke about it.. and things are the usual ( great going actually!)... I really really like this guy.. and he does too, I can tell.. but what's with this commitment thingy? BTW this guy is a player.. but hasn't had any flings after he met me..