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  • Jul 13, 2010, 02:00 PM
    Bivy13
    How do I find them..
    I was born in Drs Hospital in Broward County Florida which is no longer there. I was adopted at birth under a closed adoption. I know very little about my birth parents, age, hair and eye color, some medical info and careers at the time. How can I find them??
  • Jul 13, 2010, 02:03 PM
    tickle

    If you say it was a closed adoption, then they never wanted to be found, ever. Plus the hospital is no longer there.

    Tick
  • Jul 13, 2010, 02:10 PM
    Bivy13
    I know they don't want to be found but I don't have enough medical information and that could kill me if I'm not careful
  • Jul 13, 2010, 03:42 PM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Bivy13 View Post
    I know they dont want to be found but I dont have enough medical information and that could kill me if im not carefull

    What makes you think this? Do you have certain medical conditions now? If not, there is not sufficient evidence for records to be opened.
  • Jul 13, 2010, 05:50 PM
    tickle
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Bivy13 View Post
    I know they dont want to be found but I dont have enough medical information and that could kill me if im not carefull

    Yes, that is possible, my son is in the same boat. His dad was adopted so no paternal medical information available on that side, of course, except his dad, but not enough. He is managing quite well though with a good cardio doctor. So you can manage too with a good doctor, so I hope you have one.

    Tell us what the potential problem might be.

    Tick
  • Jul 13, 2010, 05:51 PM
    J_9

    My husband and two of his siblings were adopted. So far so good and they are all over 40.
  • Jul 14, 2010, 05:18 AM
    Synnen

    Closed adoptions are next to impossible to open without a life-threatening reason. "Life-threatening" means you MUST have someone with the same rare blood type, or need a close biological family member for a bone marrow or kidney transplant.

    The promise made to birthmothers at the time of closed adoptions was that their identity would be protected.

    There is a sticky at the top of the adoption forums. It gives good suggestions on how to conduct a search.

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