How could I forget my ex?
I was in a relationship with my ex boyfriend.we split up 5 months ago.I was fed up with his selfish controlling bevahour.he was always thinking himself.he was a taker I was a giver.I was so fallen in love with him.I try my best to make him happy.but he was going to see his son on weekends.on that weekends usually only one day he was getting drunk.but he wasn't normal drinker.he has drank to get drunk.and start to calling me by telephone and always start to crying.next day was normal.but even we go out together somewhere nice which we did in my birthday,I thought it was my special day after dinner out we came home and he was carry on secretly drinking and gets drunk again.
He never buy me any nice things.I used to buy him lots of nice stuff.I was thinking about him all the time.I was cooking every lunch and every night.and every Sunday perfect steak dinner was ready for him.I used to dress up for him waiting for him on sundays he used to say he was tired.and get sleep.
Even last day I was going to short time my own country.he came with me london but I gave him petrol money and gave him some money.in that money he took me a dinner.I thought he was going to give me some nice necklca or nice ring or something he didn't give me anything.
I am still thinking why I gave him a money?
I was always feeling I should have to give him something to make him happy.he make me feeling that way.I was always thinking I have to give him.
Now I break up with him.
Which was right decision.but still remember him,he find a girkfriend nearly 14 younger than him.I was jealous that I was the one supposed to find somebody and happy instead of I was alone now.ans he used me ,and he is tha one find a someone I am still alone.
Comment on TruthSayer0122's post
Thank you very much your answer which is lovely answer.I am try to do everything you suggest
Just wondering that do you think people would change?he was a selfish,money oriented,taker, controlling person,never buy a present ,always thinking about him
Do you think selfish people would change?
I break up with my boyfriend.he was selfish,money oriented,taker not a giver all the time.he was always looking his benefits.what ever stuations suits him ,he would try otherwise he would never do anything for you.
But it takes me understand 1 and a half year his personalities.
He is now has a girlfriend.14 years younger than ghim.she is working in a pub which his favorite place.
I was wondering,what ever I have done nice things for him he never treat me nice ,how I deserve it.
Do you think he didn't treat me nice or he was selfish because he didn't love me enough .do you think he is going to treat her nice and better because if people love their partner ,they would change?
I was wondering,selfish man would change?
He didn't do it with me ,he was repaiting himself whatever I was teling him relationships have to be sharing give and take.
He was pretending he didn't understand,
Please help me,that thinking eating me out.
I want to hearing that, they are not going to happy because he is the one selfish not nice person.
Still stupidly thinking that if I act differently ,everything would br defferent,but in the other hand I amm tottaly knowimg that I have done everything everything to make him happy.I wouldn't have done anything better.
But still ,I am surprised in that personalty he find somebody.
Maybe I am a little bit jealous that I am 37 years old we were same age.he find somebody that young and they are happy.I was giving that I am stilll a lone.
He was a controlling person a lot maybe it would nr easier to control young person.
Please answer me
Comment on Jake2008's post
It wasn't a superficial relationship in my side. I only want that he would or he could make time for me.I never wanted a expensive things from him.he wasnot rich ,I knew it when we first together.I just love him without any expections
Comment on Jake2008's post
But you are right.people never change.. that is why I left him in a first place.I am focusing myself now.