I need some help my youngesy daughters dad hasn't been around for over a year hasn't helped me at all I don't know what to do help me... lost mama

You can apply for child support and if you haven't already apply for custody.

You need to be more specific about what you want help with.

If you don't have a custody order, you file for custody of the child, file for child support.
If you are having money issues, have you looked into welfare and insurance for the child though the state ?