Marriage intimacy problems only after a year of marriage
Hello,
It is my first time on this web site and I am hoping to express my frustration and possibly share my painful experience with somebody who can help me with advice.
My husband and I have been dating for 3 years and been married for one year! Ever since I moved into his house he has been acting emotionally distant sometimes and he started to reject making love to me, saying that he is not in the mood or that it is not the right time. This has been happening for a year and I have been very hurt and frustrated, feeling not loved by him. We have talked about this and every time he gave me no answer. He said he does not know what is going on with him and he is depressed.
I am starting to lose my hope and it is very difficult for me to even stay connected emotionally with him when he does not want me! I know he is not cheating on me and otherwise we have a wonderful relationship and he is a very good attentive man.
I just do not understand his lack of interest in intimacy. Please help me with some feedback on common shared experiences or opinions about my husbands lack of interest!
Thank you!
Comment on septemberlove's post
Hello,
Thank you for your advice. My husband does not know why he is depressed. As for the possibility of a better job or school, that is out of question! He tried to go to school and did not like it! I have encouraged him and even pushed him but I
Comment on Cat1864's post
Hi,
He is 25 but he is home every night! He has a local driving job!
I am actually the lonely one! And he is probably lonely inside as well! What kind of person-man- can refuse to make love to his wife, making up excuses all the time!
Before I'm
Comment on Cat1864's post
Haha.. thank you for the tip... that helps!