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  • Jul 11, 2010, 05:18 AM
    judy15
    Best way to leave a married man who cries every time you tell him its over
    Best way to leave a married man who cries every time you tell him its over: he always claims that he cannot live without me but I really want to move on
  • Jul 11, 2010, 05:37 AM
    redhed35

    He's not a little boy,hand him a tissue and tell him to go cry to his wife.

    You just walk away,he is using emotional blackmail to keep you where you are,and its working.

    Take the step,don't look back and keep walking.

    Go no contact,what's so ever,time for you to move on with your life and him to go back to his wife.
  • Jul 11, 2010, 05:57 AM
    mountainpinelake
    Comment on redhed35's post
    Good answer - I agree. It is like a young boy crying over ice cream on the ground. It is over. He needs to face his real life and wife.
  • Jul 13, 2010, 10:56 AM
    Devorameira

    Just leave and don't look back. Don't feel guilty about it... he should be the one feeling guilty about cheating on his wife.

    Go complete NC (no contact). Don't answer the door, any emails, texts, or phone calls.

    Change your phone number and e-mail address.
  • Jul 13, 2010, 10:38 PM
    positiveparent

    Don't open your door to him again, don't answer your phone and just totally blank him if you see him in the street, one other way is tell him if he doesn't go away you'll contact his wife, you don't carry this through but let him think you will, that should have him heading for the hills.

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