My 31 year old daughter had to move back home with us for awhile due to her loss of job. She is a single parent with two children (6 and 2). She is working but lateley is talking to me terribly. She storm ito my room 2 days ago and tole me she had never been able to talk to me,( we had what I thought was a good relationship). Doesn't want her kids around me, and said she was not leaving and I need to make room for her. If I say anything about my giving her money every month, to pay her car payment buy clothes for her kids, or when she was out on her own I gave her 100.00/monthly to help her make ends meet she said I am being childish and she can't wait to get out so I can see the kids. I try to be christian aabout this and help when I can but this is becoming unbearable. My husband does not take sides but when I said she had to go. He said she needed us to help her and she does not have to leave. I am 61yrs old and don't see any future to retirement and I work hard every day. Then come home to a dysfunctional family

Very hard one for me that is, I would do anything for my girls not matter how old I am and it sounds like you are as well.

Will she not sit down and talk with you?

What made her storm in to your room?

To me something must have kicked her off. Is living back with parents with her children causing a lot of stress for her?

Yes, do the christian thing, make her pay rent to you to stay there, and make her work for what she wants or has.

Dnt really understand your question

What made her storm into my room was because my husband told he daughter (6) that I was tired after work that day and wanted to take a nap.So she did not need to play in our bedroom at that present time. She stormed into the bedroom and said she ( her dau

My question is am I wrong for wanting her to leave if she continues with this attitude

I think you should not be disrespected in your own house, by anyone, and what's bewildering to me is, why her father doesn't think so either. If the two of you stuck together, and laid down some guidelines of acceptable behavior, things would not be so dysfunctional, and she would have no choice but to go along, or go period.

Helping her is one thing, but not being appreciated, and respected is, an entirely different story.