Hi , my names Brittney. And when touching myself or using toys I do not get any pleasure at all. I could just sit there while my boyfriend is fingering me , and it has no affect on me . I do not get pleasure or pain. I'm just kind of curouis why this is happening ?

How old are you?

I hate to ask this question. But I have had the same problem all my life and my doctor found the reason for me so I will ask point blank. Have you been molested or raped as a child? I was raped as a child, and because of that, a lot of things were destroyed 'down there' and that was the cause.

If not, I am glad lol. But that's the only thing I can think of for this issue. Good luck .

Do you know where your clitoris is,? Fingering you won't do much to get you off at all, its not the vagina that needs the stimulation its your clitoris, so I think maybe you need to have a look, its just above the vagina entrance, if stimulated correctly, along with the fingering you should be flying high sos to speak.