Hi need some help. I met a friend 3 yrs ago at my friends cottage. She lives in toronto about an hr from me. She is never able to hang out because of soccer and school. She comes up to my friends cottage every Aug long weekend. I've only seen her 2 times but stay in touch. She is coming up this year and I would like to hook up with her and possibly date her any ideas in how this should work?

I think the only advice I can give, is just talk to her about it. Tell her you like her, and want to see her more.

Well if you stay in touch with her, just ask her if she'd like to go out for coffee when she gets there in August

We alrdy no what we are going to do were just going to chill and party at night with everyone elce. Back when I first met her after she left she said she wouldn't mind seeing me its just I live an hr away and she is really busy.

Since you've been keeping in touch, you're no longer strangers to each other.

Since you're at the cottage, I'm not sure if you'll be able to go out for coffee. Try spending more time with her and have fun together. Let it flow. When you feel it's right, then let her know how you feel.

There's no guarantee that she feels the same way about you, but you won't know until you try.

Why can't you hang out with her during the year? Why do you have to wait until the cottage?

That's what I said to her but she is super busy like she has soccer year round and school we have attempted to hang out more right now she is in summer school then she has to go right to soccer

When you say hookup and possibly date do you mean you want to have sex with her then possibly date her? If so, dude, that's messed up. You've got to tell her how you feel, but don't hook up with someone you've only met face to face twice. Trust me, someone will end up getting hurt.

No I want to date her I've known her for 3 years