Is it crazy to think about an ex after 10+yrs.
Hi, I am pretty sure this is not a new topic.. but here is my story...
I dated a guy for about 2 yrs when I was in university.. we lived in the same city but he went to an out of town university.. we were each other's first love.. anyway, we broke up for some stupid reasons(lets just say we were young and naïve who didn't know better and how to handle things).. we still remained friends for a little while.. I ended up start dating someone else and he was so hurt that he decided to cut me off for good because he wanted to "have the best memories of me".. we have no contact ever since.. I know he has moved back to his home country and I have changed addresses twice and contact # numerous times.. I have dated a few guys after but we never connected the way I did with this first love..
Anyway, I am now happily married to a wonderful guy and life is as perfect as it can be, I would not want to trade this with anything in the world..
However, it just recently hit me that I still wonder how this ex is doing.. it won't bother me whatever the outcome is but I just want to know.. I think I am just looking for a closure which I may never get.. I have no plans to go all out and act like a stalker (kind of hard because we live in different ends of the world) or even risk my marriage at all (I love my husband 200%).. am I crazy? Thanks.
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I forgot to mention I did try to search him on Facebook but nothing there.. he either put his profile on high privacy or he simply is not a member.. since our story happened such long time ago and our ways of communications was quite "old" (think icq
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Sorry I am new to this site I didn't realize the up/down arrows to ISneezeFunny are the "disagree" and "agree" buttons I didn't mean that.. and I don't know how to remove them.. sorry.. :(
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Oops.. typo.. sorry I meant third party.. not part*