Entering into a relationship is like buying a pair of shoes!!



There are loads to chose from, all different colours and sizes.

You find a pair that you think will fit, you try them on, there perfect, you couldn't be happier.

But you find that the shoes do not fit like you hoped they would. There not perfect after all and do not make you happy.

So you put them back on the shelf and look for another pair.

But remember that the shoes you left behind will fit another perfectly.

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(But always remember that the shoes that were not perfect for you will be tried on by another and you might end up with worse shoes than the ones you gave away!)

Irony!!

Where I come from 4answers, that is called "dating" -- its light, fun and a lot easier on everyone's feelings than serial relationshipping is! LOL

Oh I See ! I knew I must of skipped a class at school... lol...

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Originally Posted by valinors_sorrow

Where I come from 4answers, that is called "dating" -- its light, fun and a lot easier on everyone's feelings than serial relationshipping is! LOL

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I completely agree Mrs Myagi,

That is dating and would be far easier. I tried this when I was younger but I much prefer a serious relationship because it has more to offer by it's very nature. I don't know, perhaps it's a personal preferance...

I just wish it was not soooooooo painful when it ends up going pete tong (so to speak)

Another point is that I don't feel I can give all of myself in a dating situation. I think sometimes I wonder what peoples expectations are and try to represent as best I can what they want to see and then let the full Geoff into their view once they know me better. Same with most people I become acquainted too actually... hmmmmm, maybe I am learning something here..

Daniel-San

Actually, what am I banging on about, that is like everyone. We all take time to get to know one another...

:eek: :o Verbal Diarrhea at 17:05P.M GMT

Great one 4 answers... bout sums it up, huh?

Geoff, you crack me up... you took us from "pete tong" to verbal diarrhea all in a day... LOL.

Geoff, see you will know it is the right one, when you put your "whole" foot in the shoe and it fits perfectly, accepts your "whole" foot and doesn't pinch or hurt :):)

Why is this giving me the urge to shop for shoes.. hmmm

Holy cow, dating schools, shoe shopping, verbal diarrhea and I'm still trying to figure out what or who in the blue blazes is pete tong! :eek:

LOL, I know... I loved that "pete tong" saying.. too funny.

hehehe Pete Tong is a DJ on UK BBC Radio One.
His name is now used in rhyming slang;
Pete Tong = Wrong ;)

Hence it's all gone pete tong :D:D

Curly,

That's too cute. Thank you for that explanation. Now does Pete have anything to do with the saying "what I am banging on about"?? LOl just kiddn. Very cute :)

"what I am banging on about" = I'm talking utter nonsense ;)

Don't you just love English colloquialism

Man... I not only love that but 'ow all you blokes say it too! I am a major sucker for any kind of UK accent!

(is a closet anglophile, I think, and damn proud of it too! LOL)

It always hits my funny bone.. in a good way... Allheart bows to her UK friends. :)

Val, dropping the 'H' isn't UK wide.
It's mostly from London and the Home Counties (the ones surrounding London).
Basically they are a bunch of lazy, shandy drinking, southern jessies.

Ps Please see This Thread for further frolics ;)

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Originally Posted by valinors_sorrow

Holy cow, dating schools, shoe shopping, verbal diarrhea and I'm still trying to figure out what or who in the blue blazes is pete tong!! :eek:

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Pete Tong is a DJ, but the saying is really just used in some places to say that things have all gone messed up. :)

Geoff,

We all are continuing to learn and grow... Everyday and every occurrence is a new learning experience... :):)