What does a father do about not being able to see his child because the mother will not let him. It is written up in the divorce decree as joint custody.

What does a father do when the child whom is 14 does not want to see him because of the mother.

Please don't start multiple questions over the same issue. I've merged the threads for you.

The first question is whether there is court ordered visitation in place. If there isn't, then you need to go to court to get a visitation schedule set up.