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  • Jul 3, 2010, 01:39 PM
    Simone21295
    Is it really that bad? I didn't see anything wrong with it.
    Is it really that bad 2 exchange naked pics wit dudes?? I mean, were not touching each other or having sex or anything. Its pics. This is the 2nd tym my mama cot me wit XXX pics and my fone and this tym I'm nvr getting my fone bak. I don't c anything rong wit it
  • Jul 3, 2010, 01:45 PM
    EmoPrincess

    First off, rules of the site say you must use proper grammar.

    Second, yes it is. If you are under 18, pictures of you like that is illegal. Sending anything like that to anyone under 18 is illegal regardless of your age.

    Everything about it if either you or the others are under 18 is just plain illegal.
  • Jul 3, 2010, 01:47 PM
    Kitkat22

    It is wrong and you could get yourself into a lot of trouble. These boys are going to show these pictures to everyone. How old are you?
  • Jul 3, 2010, 02:00 PM
    Simone21295

    I don't mind. I show the stuff they send me to people
  • Jul 3, 2010, 02:01 PM
    EmoPrincess
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Simone21295 View Post
    I dont mind. i show the stuff they send me to people

    This whole thing is illegal! Whether you mind it or not
  • Jul 3, 2010, 02:02 PM
    Clough
    Hi, Simone21295!

    Is it really that bad? Please click on the following link and read some of the articles.

    LINK

    Yes. Please also use proper English spelling and grammar on this site. If you don't, then you risk having your posts deleted. This isn't a chat room.

    Thanks!
  • Jul 3, 2010, 02:05 PM
    Clough
    Who's name is your phone in, Simone21295?

    Also, you've already been asked about your age. An answer would be appreciated!

    Thanks!
  • Jul 3, 2010, 02:08 PM
    Simone21295

    I'm 15
  • Jul 3, 2010, 02:13 PM
    EmoPrincess
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Simone21295 View Post
    im 15

    First off, you are too young for this stuff. Second, you can be charged with distribution of child pornography
  • Jul 3, 2010, 02:15 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Simone21295 View Post
    im 15

    I don't have to tell you the dangers and what the repercussions from your actions will be. I've read some of your other threads and I really feel you need to speak with a counselor or someone who can help you build up yourself esteem.

    Nude pictures of yourself isn't going to do that! What that is going to lead too is you either being hurt by someone or get yourself a bad reputation around school. Those boys aren't going to like you better because you sent naked photos of yourself to them' They will joke about it and show it around.

    Wise up little girl and get help. You have put yourself in danger by doing this.
  • Jul 3, 2010, 03:09 PM
    kp2171
    So... you're upset your mother took the phone. First of all, even if you bought the phone and you are paying the monthly bills for service (are you?) she still has the right to do what she believes is needed to keep you safe. You don't have to agree. She has the trump card. When you are legally an adult, you can send as much skin out there as you wish.

    Legally... its really inconsistent. Lets say you send something to a friend. That friend passes it on to another. That other is legally an adult. If he is caught in the wrong state, he can be convicted of possession of child porn and must register as a sex offender.

    Sorry... in this area, it is best to be "too overbearing"...

    A young guy who thinks its funny to streak across a public park might end up as a convicted sex offender. Might not be the intent of the law, but in some cases, it doesn't matter.

    Your mother knows about this. What if she let you do this? What if some other parent found out and called the police?

    Show your mother the respect she deserves when she's asked you not to do this.

    It isn't all about you.
  • Jul 3, 2010, 04:17 PM
    cdad
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Simone21295 View Post
    I dont mind. i show the stuff they send me to people

    So you don't mind who sees it? Not even if your parents see you or your friends parents? You don't mind the world seeing you in that light? That is where it is headed. Don't cheapen yourself. Your body is a temple and so are the images of it. Only share that with someone your married to. Not with strangers. Because no matter how well you think you know the people your sending stuff to its bound to get into a strangers hands. Plus its illegal. That is a whole other ball of wax. Don't even go there and stay out of trouble.
  • Jul 3, 2010, 04:59 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Simone21295 View Post
    Is it rly that bad jus 2 exchange naked pics wit dudes??? i mean, were not touchin each other or havin sex or anythin. its jus pics. this is the 2nd tym my mama cot me wit XXX pics n my fone and this tym im nvr gettin my fone bak. i dnt c anythin rong wit it

    I didn't understand most of what you wrote, I don't speak gibberish, but, if you're sending out nude pictures of yourself at the age of 15, well, you're headed for jail. It's not as glamorous as the movies make it out to be.

    I'm going to tell you what's wrong with sending out nude pictures. First, it's illegal at your age. If you're caught by the wrong person, you will be convicted of distributing child porn, because guess what, you're a child!

    Second, you're making yourself look cheap. Act like a cheap bleep and that's how people will treat you. You get the respect you demand, and by doing this, you're not demanding any respect. The guys will drool, yes, and they will come around. Once they get what they expect from a girl that does what you're doing, they'll leave, and tell all their friends. Teen boys love easy girls like you.

    Third, if you keep this up, you'll have no future. You'll be used up by the time you're 20. Most guys will look at you as the person you're projecting to be, easy, cheap, uneducated, trash. Trust me, when a guy is looking for a girlfriend, you're not the type that they look at. You're a good time, a one night stand, but that's it. Is that what you want?

    You can still turn this around, there's still time. Your mom did the right thing by removing your phone. I hope she keeps it until you learn to respect yourself, your body, and the law.

    Wake up and smell the coffee, before you're drinking it in a jail cell.
  • Jul 3, 2010, 08:57 PM
    Simone21295
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Clough View Post
    Who's name is your phone in, Simone21295?

    Also, you've already been asked about your age. An answer would be appreciated!

    Thanks!

    My mom is paying on my phone for me. I don't pay for anything
  • Jul 3, 2010, 09:01 PM
    Kitkat22

    Then your mom should know about the nude photo's. You say she does I say if she does and allows this to go on , something is wrong.

    Let your mother read these post and we'll see if she knows.
  • Jul 3, 2010, 09:02 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    At the end of the day, moral issues aside, it is illegal, if you are underage, sending them out to anyone is a crime.. You can be put on probation or sent to detention for doing it.
    Or have a fine ( which your mom would have to pay)

    Next normally if you send it to one person, it is then sent to several others at some point and time
  • Jul 3, 2010, 09:22 PM
    Simone21295
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    I didn't understand most of what you wrote, I don't speak gibberish, but, if you're sending out nude pictures of yourself at the age of 15, well, you're headed for jail. It's not as glamorous as the movies make it out to be.

    I'm going to tell you what's wrong with sending out nude pictures. First, it's illegal at your age. If you're caught by the wrong person, you will be convicted of distributing child porn, because guess what, you're a child!

    Second, you're making yourself look cheap. Act like a cheap bleep and that's how people will treat you. You get the respect you demand, and by doing this, you're not demanding any respect. The guys will drool, yes, and they will come around. Once they get what they expect from a girl that does what you're doing, they'll leave, and tell all their friends. Teen boys love easy girls like you.

    Third, if you keep this up, you'll have no future. You'll be used up by the time you're 20. Most guys will look at you as the person you're projecting to be, easy, cheap, uneducated, trash. Trust me, when a guy is looking for a girlfriend, you're not the type that they look at. You're a good time, a one night stand, but that's it. Is that what you want?

    You can still turn this around, there's still time. Your mom did the right thing by removing your phone. I hope she keeps it until you learn to respect yourself, your body, and the law.

    Wake up and smell the coffee, before you're drinking it in a jail cell.

    Sorry about my grammar. I forgot I had to use proper english here.

    I already have a boyfriend. He is a really nice guy. He doesn't know about the pictures and stuff. I can't tell him. So in sending those pictures I was sort of cheating on him.
    I didn't do it because I wanted guys to like me. They already do. I did it because I wanted to and it was fun.
    I agree with you though about it being a good thing for her to take my phone away because if I had the chance to do it again I know I would.
  • Jul 3, 2010, 09:26 PM
    Clough
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Clough
    Who's name is your phone in, Simone21295?

    Also, you've already been asked about your age. An answer would be appreciated!

    Thanks!
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Simone21295 View Post
    My mom is paying on my phone for me. I don't pay for anything

    So then, I assume that the phone is in her name. Correct?

    If indeed, it is in her name, and if something truly illegal is transmitted electronically by using it, and if that transmission is traced to the source, then guess who it gets traced to?

    Also, if she's paying for the phone, don't you think that you should abiding by any of her rules with using the cell phone? I mean, it is her money and she is your mother and only wants what would be the best for you!
  • Jul 3, 2010, 09:27 PM
    Simone21295
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Kitkat22 View Post
    I don't have to tell you the dangers and what the repercussions from your actions will be. I've read some of your other threads and I really feel you need to speak with a counselor or someone who can help you build up your self esteem.

    Nude pictures of yourself isn't going to do that! What that is going to lead too is you either being hurt by someone or get yourself a bad reputation around school. Those boys aren't going to like you better because you sent naked photos of yourself to them' They will joke about it and show it around.

    Wise up little girl and get help. You have put yourself in danger by doing this.

    I already had a therapist at school about some other problems I was having. Its summer break now and she won't be back at my school next year.
  • Jul 3, 2010, 09:30 PM
    Clough
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg
    I didn't understand most of what you wrote, I don't speak gibberish, but, if you're sending out nude pictures of yourself at the age of 15, well, you're headed for jail. It's not as glamorous as the movies make it out to be.

    I'm going to tell you what's wrong with sending out nude pictures. First, it's illegal at your age. If you're caught by the wrong person, you will be convicted of distributing child porn, because guess what, you're a child!

    Second, you're making yourself look cheap. Act like a cheap bleep and that's how people will treat you. You get the respect you demand, and by doing this, you're not demanding any respect. The guys will drool, yes, and they will come around. Once they get what they expect from a girl that does what you're doing, they'll leave, and tell all their friends. Teen boys love easy girls like you.

    Third, if you keep this up, you'll have no future. You'll be used up by the time you're 20. Most guys will look at you as the person you're projecting to be, easy, cheap, uneducated, trash. Trust me, when a guy is looking for a girlfriend, you're not the type that they look at. You're a good time, a one night stand, but that's it. Is that what you want?

    You can still turn this around, there's still time. Your mom did the right thing by removing your phone. I hope she keeps it until you learn to respect yourself, your body, and the law.

    Wake up and smell the coffee, before you're drinking it in a jail cell.
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Simone21295 View Post
    Sorry about my grammar. I forgot I had to use proper english here.

    I already have a boyfriend. He is a really nice guy. He doesn't know about the pictures and stuff. I can't tell him. So in sending those pictures I was sort of cheating on him.
    I didn't do it because I wanted guys to like me. They already do. I did it because I wanted to and it was fun.
    I agree with you though about it being a good thing for her to take my phone away because if I had the chance to do it again I know I would.

    Did you take the time to read any of the articles on websites to which I posted a link to a search?

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