hey :(
yes i need help to understand her !!!!
she tell me she loves me but she scared to hurt me :(
but i love her and i want to be whit her and she tell me she wants too but
she got a bf and i dunno what she gonna do so if anywone got advice it would help allot
thanks:confused:

I understand her - and I would let go of that relationship. She wants you but has another boyfriend. She loves you but will not get involved because she does not want to hurt you. Sorry, but that is so full of baloney.

She wants you to stick around and pick up pieces, be her shoulder to lean on, take care of her WHEN she wants you, she wants a doormat and that is you.

Please consider finding someone who does want you - all of you. Get out and meet some new people. When this woman comes around, have the strength to say "no thank you but I have a new life". Good luck.

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Originally Posted by mistabearz

hey :(
yes i need help to understand her !!!!
she tell me she loves me but she scared to hurt me :(

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She's lying. She doesn't care one thing about you. If she did she wouldn't string you along like this.

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Originally Posted by mistabearz

but i love her and i want to be whit her and she tell me she wants too but
she got a bf and i dunno what she gonna do so if anywone got advice it would help allot
thanks:confused: [/B]

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You've got to pull away and get rid of her. When you do you look back and realize it was for the best. She's lying when she says she wants to be with you. She wants you there in case her current relationship fails, then you can be there to listen to her complain about her current boyfriend. Once she's done complaing she'll move onto the next guy and you'll be left wondering what happened.

Don't let her push you around like this. She is using you. I suggest that you do the same back to her, flirt with other girls and get her jelous switch the tables around, so that she's the one waiting for you, not you waiting for her. If she doesn't make a decision in the next week, than move on don't wait too long that's desperate.

As a woman who was approached by a man who is obviously clean intentions, its hard to reject. (she's not Simon Cowell alike) Her intention is not to use you or make you a doormat. She's just being SUBTLE in rejecting you. If she has someone else and said "im afraid to hurt you" that's a clear indication that you are not needed. JUST GET IT. SHE PREFERS HER CURRENT STEADY.

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Plus, she was using him, nor was she nice about it.