Hi, I'm 16 years old and know I'm a lesbian. But I don't find myself thinking of girls my own age "sexy", because I feel as if I'm being a pervert or something. I like older women, 20-50. Why is this?

YOu are who you are by choice; at l6 you should probably know in what direction you are going. Your preference for older women is not unusual. I am sure there are many heteorosexual individuals who feel the same way. So why should it be any different tfor you?

However, I think by the time you are 20 you will have probably narrowed that field down a little; you have quite a journey yet :)

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My wife ( much younger) perferred older men ( thus me). Who you prefer, from height, weight, and age is a preference that is totally your choices.